the park, sports events, the circus, the rodeo, the beach, at restaurants, antique stores, fairs, christmas shopping..'tis the season'

and whatever activities you personally would enjoy for fun....thats where i would look.

That's what I'm thinking, Lex... ask friends to ask friends... something developed this afternoon like that... might be a meeting coming up... through friends... go figure...

Well, I haven't seen many chicks at the rifle/pistol range lately... but I'll keep my eyes open...

maybe at the zoo? good place to strike up a convo.

or hmmmmm...its winter..bookstores/libraries the best bet.

stores..girls are inside this time of year.

TM -- Here's the logistical issue I've been running into --

My single female friends, who used to be 20 and unattached, had tons of friends who were also 20 and unattached. Now they're all 30 and married with 2.4 kids (or divorced with 2.4 kids) -- not a good scenario. They try to fix me up with people who are 27 with 2.4 kids. Uh, no thanks.

I need to make some younger friends.

Yeah, if we are single with no kids, we have all these opotions of sloppy seconds with some chick with brats that don't belong to us... been there, done that... doesn't work worth a damn.

I need to move to Guam... an amazing amount of beautiful single women there with no kids... visited in 2006... damn best place I've ever been to...

Truly a tropical paradise, minus women's lib from the states...

thata a poor disrespectful attitude.

women with brats already...


arent good enouogh for YOU??

jeesh.
what you 'boys' scared of?

You know, a lot of dudes have brats that don't belong to us too.

i mean its the way you worded it that was so disrespectful.


preferences..I undesrstand..I wont get serious with a guy that DOESNT have kids. and i wouldnt date an old man either.

just umm...certain things we could never relate to.

I was married to a woman with 5 that weren't mine, so I earned the right to say whatever I please...

Shoulda worked it out with the old man in the first place... not my job to raise somebody else's rug rats... never will be...

A sober club

Anyways... that was a fun tangent....

... not back on topic to places we meet singles...

I never want to have kids, but if I were to meet someone who I got along with, was attracted to, and treated me awesome, it would be stupid to not date the person because they have children.

Maybe a shoe store...

A Batman outfitter store...

... bat-a-rangs...... check

... bat smoke........ check...

hey, look at the cute chick in the catwoman outfit... hmmmm

"Hey baby, what's your number?"

What do you mean about a sober club... like an Alcoholics Anonymous Alano Club or what?

At a bank, while depositing tons of money....

A computer store, buying new upgrades so you can go back to the Internet dating site... LOL

Did you seriously just say that?

I've seen you complain, then fall in "love", complain again then fall in "love" again, on here at least twice already. Maybe take some more time getting to know someone before getting your heart in so deep and writing poems about them in a public forum.

I'm not kidding one bit when I say I think you have some issues to work out in your head about the opposite sex. I mean no disrespect to you but the whole phrasing above is kind of a lame way to state your view. You probably just managed to offend about 3/4 of the women on here. You make it sound like a woman with children is damaged goods. You can't think that a guy your age with an attitude like yours will be attractive either can you? I really hope your just having a bad day. Any woman you date now will be "sloppy seconds" as you put it. There aren't too many 40 year old virgins in real life.

Stating your opinion on whether or not you want kids is one thing, but jeez TelephoneMan.

Since all these other options are out in your mind maybe go look in the wanted ads. Some lovely young beauty in Guam (or russia) may be waiting for you to arrange transportation for her trip to the alter with you.

I do wish you good luck. I know you have been clear in the fact that you do want a woman in your life. Maybe you'll find the one who can put the jaded outlook away forever for you.