I agree with the lieing, cheating stuff. And the broken promises is a
very good point, but the point of say what you mean and mean what you
say is sooooooo true. There are three words that are being misused on a
constant basis... I LOVE YOU... If you only love my ass then say so or
if you would love to lay me then say so.. but don't use those 3 words
and make me believe it when after you get what you want your walking
away.

That is my biggest turn off... If I have only known you for a few days,
weeks etc, I cannot see how you can love me, you may love my style, or
the way I am in bed but it takes longer than that to really love someone
as a person.

get back to you on this one 2

no liars, no thieves, and put the damn toilet seat down
please....lol...pick up after yourself after all we feed you....a
compliment and a door being opened for you every once in a while would
be nice....mean what you say and say what you mean....and cuddle at
night after working all day!!!!

What I hate most are these things:
1.)a drunk who pisses himself
2.)a habitual liar
3.)one who keeps secrets
4.)one who is controlling
5.)cheaters
6.)verbal or physical abuse
7.)one who lies to get what he wants
8.)one who plays games

In case you're wondering....those all describe traits of my current
husband. needless to say......

Quote from Unsure:

"You know what is very annoying to me is this....men play on words..for
example: Did you sleep with her? Hell no he didn't sleep with her...he
just had sex with her, there was no sleeping!"

I have to admit, Unsure, that this has been done to me more times that I
want to remember ... Not too long ago, one of them said that he was
separated and living with his brother and sister-in-law. The truth was
that his wife was away for three months and so as not to feel too
lonely, he went to live with his brother for those three months. So he
considered himself 'separated'. LOL

i cant stand controlling men or unfounded accusations...

excuse me but why isn't your ass at work????????

I JUST WANT A MAN THAT DOES DISHES!!!!!

in a releationship what bugs me is a man that has to be around me 24/7
and someone who cant make a decision without calling his family and men
that live with their parents

I agree with youwho1. I know several guys that are married or have
girlfriends and they always try to hook up/cheat behind their better
halfs back! I keep telling them, if you play you'll pay! They'll get
caught eventually.

Not only do guys do this but I have known plenty of women who do it too!
If you can't be faithful why stay in the relationship if you want
someone else?

Sanna, my ex cheated on me; we divorced, he remarried and then was
diagnosed with cancer and died just a year later. Sometimes fate fills
the gaps where guns can't

I have had several guys cheat on me and what goes around eventually
comes around! Some are already getting their just deserts!