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Topic: is it bad to....
btlcap Joined Fri 11/21/08 Posts: 1	Fri 11/21/08 05:46 PM
if there is love envolved, i would say stick with it

usernamefayou Joined Tue 08/26/08 Posts: 1195	Fri 11/21/08 05:48 PM
If people suck in bed, they suck in bed. If you have to train someone, that means they just have no clue or are just inexperienced. From the way it sounds from some, sex is sort of basic and/or they can easily get theirs. idk I like it when it's guuuuud. I need it.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Fri 11/21/08 05:50 PM
honestly... i would give it time.. especialy if the relationship is good outside of the bedroom... try talking to the guy and let him know that you like....... or that you want to try...... i nkow its not an easy discussion to have.. but its worth a try if you really like the guy.. however if hes just kinda ok to hang out with. but you dont see a relationship with him going anywhere.. cut him loose.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 11/21/08 05:51 PM
honestly... i would give it time.. especialy if the relationship is good outside of the bedroom... try talking to the guy and let him know that you like....... or that you want to try...... i nkow its not an easy discussion to have.. but its worth a try if you really like the guy.. however if hes just kinda ok to hang out with. but you dont see a relationship with him going anywhere.. cut him loose. spork'em

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Fri 11/21/08 05:55 PM
honestly... i would give it time.. especialy if the relationship is good outside of the bedroom... try talking to the guy and let him know that you like....... or that you want to try...... i nkow its not an easy discussion to have.. but its worth a try if you really like the guy.. however if hes just kinda ok to hang out with. but you dont see a relationship with him going anywhere.. cut him loose. spork'em mmmm... spork him twice!! RAWR!!!

Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Fri 11/21/08 06:17 PM
not want to date someone because theyre bad in bed...? i know it sounds like a horrible question, but....yeah. No. It's okay not to want to f--k someone because they are bad in bed. But, it's perfectly okay to date them. Especially, if they have money.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 11/21/08 06:39 PM
not want to date someone because theyre bad in bed...? i know it sounds like a horrible question, but....yeah. i figure, for the most part, that i'm only as bad in bed as my partner is; or vice versa. personally speaking, i figure if the entire relationship, outside of sex, is good and healthy, chances are what's in the bedroom is going to be great as well. Very true... and to add to those words of wisdom, you don't have to sleep with and have a relationship with every member of the oposite sex. I have many male friends who I do not sleep with. I love to hang out with them but that's all we do is hang out. What's wrong with that, if you don't want to sleep with someone...JUST DON'T. With experience and age comes wisdom on these matters.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 11/21/08 07:15 PM
not want to date someone because theyre bad in bed...? i know it sounds like a horrible question, but....yeah. I tried this....and it doesn't work, no matter how much you like them as a person. If the sex is bad, then the relationship will go nowhere. Now, on the other hand, if you can help them get better at it???......The sky's the limit.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Fri 11/21/08 07:26 PM
I couldn't stay with them. I've only dated guys around my age and if by that age you haven't figured out what it takes to make love, then you're just screwed!