Topic: Is it right to stay....
yeahitsmeok's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:42 PM
with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?

CoffeeSonata's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:44 PM
with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?
Isnt that one example of a toxic relationship? I cant be with or stay with someoneout of pity because it would eat me alive.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:47 PM
Unless it's happy and healthy for all involved, or has the potential to be that way if worked on (if the relationship is to be saved-if both parties are willing to put forth the honest effort), then it is best....and kindest to all to part, hopefully on amicable terms.

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:52 PM
never stay....noway

Winx's photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:54 PM

with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?


That's not healthy, IMO.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 10:55 PM
get out now !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cowgirlstomp's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:00 PM

with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?


No, let it go, I am learning this myself. As we speak

izzie's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:05 PM
NNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

that outa answer your question!!

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:09 PM

with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?


not really

iwearthemask's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:17 PM
no. not at all. NEVER.

unless they are drunk as hell...
drinks
then you should be nice enough to hang around to care for them that night...

Dopamine's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:21 PM
from personal experience...
get out as fast as you could!

first,it won't last
second, who's gonna feel sorry for you when u mess up ur life for someone who doesn't worth it?

AngieH79's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:33 PM
DO NOT STAY, NO GOOD WILL COME FROM IT!!

You aren't doing that person any favors by staying with them either.

Wrenches's photo
Tue 11/18/08 11:54 PM
ifa youa stay, you will turn into like the cockaroacha

thumper95's photo
Wed 11/19/08 12:35 AM
you have to do whats right for you and your kids. being somewhere where your not at least at peace with yourself aint good for you or them. they will know somethings wrong.

no photo
Wed 11/19/08 02:49 AM
(((((((Jenn)))))))

No, hun, you deserve so much better than that. And look at it this way, would you want that for yourself? It's far kinder for both of you to be honest and let him go.

Love ya, girl, you know I'm here if you need me flowerforyou flowers

grammy09's photo
Wed 11/19/08 02:51 AM

with someone just because you feel sorry for them...even if your miserable?


i would say no you have to be happy yourself befor you can make someone elso happy and if your not happy just talk it out and either try harded or move on

take care be happy:smile:

buffry's photo
Wed 11/19/08 03:52 AM
What good do you think you are doing the person by staying, might I ask? Do you think they would be happy knowing that they are being settled for? Or stayed with out of pity? I personally want to be adored for who I am and definitely number one in the eyes of my partner! Do them a favor and let them find someone who does love them for who they are and wants to be with them!flowerforyou