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Topic: Ladies....I believe this
PacificStar48's photo
Tue 11/18/08 02:19 PM
I also feel there are a lot of little girls out there playing at being women. THey think they are entitled to Prince Charming when they haven't even earned a frog. They want to have kids until they tire of their baby dolls, they want to have someone else do the cooking, cleaning, and bill paying while they spend money like it grows on trees. After they use sex to get a man they think that they can close up the cookie jar and have a mans affection and protection for nothing. They want to play all day on the computer, watch TV 24/7, gamble, and run the bars all night with anything that will wave a dollar. A lot of girls need to GROW UP!

uk1971's photo
Tue 11/18/08 02:28 PM

I think someone is running a con on you Tom. If her husband is so controlling how is she talking to you on a computer? Fine to support friends but make sure you are not being played for a chump.

Women who find themselves in desperate situations rarely get there quickly and often agree to it. If and when you get sick and tired of something you make the sacrifices necessary to leave. If that means the clothes on your back with a kid in hand you just do it. There are support systems there and yes they are harsh but what price do you assign for freedom from tyranny you picked?


She isn't taking me for a chump.
She knows that I have a girlfriend. We talk as friends.
And I'm not the only friend she has who shows concern.
She has another female friend who lives closer to her who I've also spoken to, and has offered to take her in, (She has a family of her own), until she can arrange something else and somewhere else to live.

When the person you have been together with for many years changes and becomes a control freak like he is, then it isn't easy to get out of the situation when there are kids involved.
Especially, when that child also loves her father.
Even so, her daughter also now sees what he's like and is very protective and supportive of her mother.
I think the only positive thing is that he isn't as yet violent towards either of them. Which is why I and several others have advised her to get out as quickly as possible before the situation escalates any more.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 11/18/08 02:46 PM



Finally a man who gets it!! Thanks Hunsmooched flowerforyou



It's not that it's finally a man gets it. I think alot more women need to pay more attention to some men as alot of men should pay more attention to women.



laugh that'll be the day..like i said, everyone is too picky and selfishnoway laugh


No, not everyone is and by not being, i have met a couple women off this site and will be meeting onemore in a couple months:smile:

uk1971's photo
Tue 11/18/08 04:14 PM




Finally a man who gets it!! Thanks Hunsmooched flowerforyou



It's not that it's finally a man gets it. I think alot more women need to pay more attention to some men as alot of men should pay more attention to women.



laugh that'll be the day..like i said, everyone is too picky and selfishnoway laugh


No, not everyone is and by not being, i have met a couple women off this site and will be meeting onemore in a couple months:smile:


Good to know that some of us guys who have been around here for a while are finally having some success. :wink:
How ya doing bro? Long time no hear. drinker drinker drinker

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