Topic: Love is it truly about you or them?
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Tue 11/18/08 04:35 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Tue 11/18/08 04:37 AM
Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?

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Tue 11/18/08 04:40 AM

Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.

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Tue 11/18/08 05:07 AM


Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.
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Tue 11/18/08 05:13 AM


Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.
The key word is Should.....
But is it always that way?
Some truly only love themselves....how it makes them feel.
Some love only the persons' money.... how it makes them feel.
Some love only sex... how it makes them feel.
Many times it's mutual, but not always...

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Tue 11/18/08 05:13 AM


Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.

WOW that almost brought a tear to my eyes
very true

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Tue 11/18/08 05:23 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Tue 11/18/08 05:25 AM
Oops a double post...:tongue:

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Tue 11/18/08 05:24 AM



Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


It is about both of you. Love is never one sided. It should be mutual and definitely about loving them for who they are, not about how they make you feel. Feelings fade, love is a roller coaster of ups and downs. It is when it withstands those roller coasters that you know it is true and will last. You should be confident in who you are as a person on your own and not depend on another for happiness.

BTW... This a very beautiful statement...flowerforyou
All we need is a Princess Leia outfit & a bottle of wine.
INSIDE JOKE between us....:wink:

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Tue 11/18/08 05:25 AM
:heart: Love is for 2 people to share:heart:

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Tue 11/18/08 05:34 AM
love is a verb, like drive,putt,sniff,reach,walk,carry,cry,laugh,work,play etc...it's an action word. It exist independently of whatever anyone else is doing. So I postulate that it's about you. You can love someone (or something) whether or not they love you in return.

jmo

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Tue 11/18/08 05:34 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Tue 11/18/08 05:35 AM

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Tue 11/18/08 05:45 AM
Thanks, but it is truly the way I feel! Just giving my opinion! Love you all!flowerforyou

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Tue 11/18/08 06:48 AM
Well, I'm kinda' paranoid...so I'm gonna say it's gotta be all about THEM!

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Tue 11/18/08 06:59 AM

Love is it truly about you or them?

Is loving someone about how they make You feel about Yourself, or is it about loving that person for who they are?


Both.

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Tue 11/18/08 07:16 AM

Well, I'm kinda' paranoid...so I'm gonna say it's gotta be all about THEM!
Don't be paranoid... we won't bite.
Although, were a bunch of parona's, wolves, shark...etc.:tongue: