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Topic: Time for some introspect...
buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:15 PM
Ever wonder why you are single? I keep hearing all of these complaints. This person abbreviates/uses slang, this person can't take a joke, this person jokes too much, this person is fake, this person is blah, blah, blah! Why don't you list the qualities that make you a good catch and the qualities that you expect out of your mate? I would like some feedback. Are your expectations maybe too high? Do you possibly think that you are better than others for some reason? Just wondering! Discuss away...

TessMac Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 192	Sun 11/16/08 03:20 PM
I'm just here to make friends, with the way I work single is best. To hard to have relationship when you are only around 4-6 months of the year.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:21 PM
I'm just here to make friends, with the way I work single is best. To hard to have relationship when you are only around 4-6 months of the year. Feel ya on that one!

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 11/16/08 03:22 PM
Hey im not pickey long as she's 36 24 36

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:25 PM
Hey im not pickey long as she's 36 24 36 Cute hon!

OpenWounds Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 335	Sun 11/16/08 03:27 PM
Oh i'm very aware of why i'm single. I'm bad at meeting people, and tend to be instantly defeatist about any potential match. I'm my own worst enemy, and very aware of it.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:30 PM
Oh i'm very aware of why i'm single. I'm bad at meeting people, and tend to be instantly defeatist about any potential match. I'm my own worst enemy, and very aware of it. Okay...but not what I was looking for! I'm looking for what good qualities you possess and what you are looking for!

TessMac Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 192	Sun 11/16/08 03:34 PM
Oh i'm very aware of why i'm single. I'm bad at meeting people, and tend to be instantly defeatist about any potential match. I'm my own worst enemy, and very aware of it. Okay...but not what I was looking for! I'm looking for what good qualities you possess and what you are looking for! If you can find a man who does not mind his woman being gone 6 months of the year because she is sailing around the world with 50 Sailors, let me know LOL

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sun 11/16/08 03:37 PM
I am single because i never spent enough time with myself. I was always worried about how other people would recieve me. Then i would get angry, or dissapointed when things would go bad. I dont know if i would be considered a catch or not, because for the pass two years i have been alone. I have been open more to being friends. I am enjoying myself so much that i am afraid that i will get involved with someone, and then want out. The one thing that never changes is, missing the greatest feeling in the world. Making Love to a Woman

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:38 PM
Oh i'm very aware of why i'm single. I'm bad at meeting people, and tend to be instantly defeatist about any potential match. I'm my own worst enemy, and very aware of it. Okay...but not what I was looking for! I'm looking for what good qualities you possess and what you are looking for! If you can find a man who does not mind his woman being gone 6 months of the year because she is sailing around the world with 50 Sailors, let me know LOL Sure...why don't you try a fellow sailor???

TessMac Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 192	Sun 11/16/08 03:40 PM
Dating a Sailor is not like dating a Land Lubber. If things do not work out, you are stuck on a ship until the voyage ends. Not like you can throw him overboard LOL

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:41 PM
Dating a Sailor is not like dating a Land Lubber. If things do not work out, you are stuck on a ship until the voyage ends. Not like you can throw him overboard LOL Point well taken...makes sense!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 11/16/08 03:43 PM
I can tell you why NOT to date me.... will that help?

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:53 PM
I am single because i never spent enough time with myself. I was always worried about how other people would recieve me. Then i would get angry, or dissapointed when things would go bad. I dont know if i would be considered a catch or not, because for the pass two years i have been alone. I have been open more to being friends. I am enjoying myself so much that i am afraid that i will get involved with someone, and then want out. The one thing that never changes is, missing the greatest feeling in the world. Making Love to a Woman Awe...well maybe it's time to stop being scared and stop thinking so much. Give it a whirl and just take things as they come! Enjoy life, it's too short to let the worry take over

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 03:53 PM
I can tell you why NOT to date me.... will that help? Nope...I'm looking for positivity! Good things about you and what you want!

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sun 11/16/08 04:07 PM
I am single because i never spent enough time with myself. I was always worried about how other people would recieve me. Then i would get angry, or dissapointed when things would go bad. I dont know if i would be considered a catch or not, because for the pass two years i have been alone. I have been open more to being friends. I am enjoying myself so much that i am afraid that i will get involved with someone, and then want out. The one thing that never changes is, missing the greatest feeling in the world. Making Love to a Woman Awe...well maybe it's time to stop being scared and stop thinking so much. Give it a whirl and just take things as they come! Enjoy life, it's too short to let the worry take over I am still working on not feeling like i have too create some kind of fantasy Person. Doing thing too please myself has been great. Now i have to try to make some of those things interesting to someone else

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 04:09 PM
I am single because i never spent enough time with myself. I was always worried about how other people would recieve me. Then i would get angry, or dissapointed when things would go bad. I dont know if i would be considered a catch or not, because for the pass two years i have been alone. I have been open more to being friends. I am enjoying myself so much that i am afraid that i will get involved with someone, and then want out. The one thing that never changes is, missing the greatest feeling in the world. Making Love to a Woman Awe...well maybe it's time to stop being scared and stop thinking so much. Give it a whirl and just take things as they come! Enjoy life, it's too short to let the worry take over I am still working on not feeling like i have too create some kind of fantasy Person. Doing thing too please myself has been great. Now i have to try to make some of those things interesting to someone else For everyone there is someone!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 11/16/08 04:11 PM
I am happy with who I am and I know what I want.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sun 11/16/08 04:12 PM
I am happy with who I am and I know what I want. And I want to know what that is?? hehehe How are ya hon?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 11/16/08 04:22 PM
I am happy with who I am and I know what I want. And I want to know what that is?? hehehe How are ya hon? Fine thanks. I don't have a list of qualities that he must have or not have. I want a guy who treats me like a queen so I can treat him like a god. I'll know it when I've got it.