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Topic: Why is it so damn hard?
Chadipoo's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:12 PM
Life is hard. C'est la vie.

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sat 11/15/08 10:18 PM
I have been divorced almost 10 years and still haven't found Mr. Right. Lots of Mr. Somethings not quite rights, a few Mr. Right Nows. Still looking...tonight though I am in a life sucks kind of mood and not very optimistic.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:14 AM
As one lady explained it to me...

"You're less handsome each day. You are getting older and less handsome each year. Be realistic. You won't pull in the hotties from the beamer crowd! Just drink enough to be happy with whatever you get. Leave the lights turned off when you go home, too. There's no need for us to see each other in that condition."

I bought her another drink, and went home alone.

Bmac2008's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:22 AM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
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If I was 15 years older I would totally date you miss flowers flowers flowers rofl drinks flowers

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:39 AM
I swear I am going to start match making you all. Ridiculous to many people are not just talking to each other and getting things going.

TessMac's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:48 AM

I swear I am going to start match making you all. Ridiculous to many people are not just talking to each other and getting things going.


Regional Mingle Speed Dating !

Bmac2008's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:52 AM

I swear I am going to start match making you all. Ridiculous to many people are not just talking to each other and getting things going.

MatchMaking Game Rox!

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/180411?page=34

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:04 AM


I swear I am going to start match making you all. Ridiculous to many people are not just talking to each other and getting things going.


Regional Mingle Speed Dating !


That is an awesome idea. Count me in.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:07 AM

As one lady explained it to me...

"You're less handsome each day. You are getting older and less handsome each year. Be realistic. You won't pull in the hotties from the beamer crowd! Just drink enough to be happy with whatever you get. Leave the lights turned off when you go home, too. There's no need for us to see each other in that condition."

I bought her another drink, and went home alone.


I'd take you home. flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:11 AM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
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Become comfortable alone, try your hardest to make you the neccessity...I've found things fall together when you are ok with being alone.flowerforyou

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Sun 11/16/08 11:36 AM
Edited by zaphodbebleebrox on Sun 11/16/08 11:40 AM
I think its the same old thing.

Girls want money or Brad Pitt.

Guys want a dancer or Renee Zellweger.

Its just that the girls have to
settle for a little less money or Vince Vaughn

and the guys have to settle for Bridget Jones.

The ones who are willing to negotiate are the ones dating
and not alone on the weekends,

while those who stand on their positions are alone.

Bamagirl6's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:08 PM

I have been divorced almost 10 years and still haven't found Mr. Right. Lots of Mr. Somethings not quite rights, a few Mr. Right Nows. Still looking...tonight though I am in a life sucks kind of mood and not very optimistic.


I totally understand where you're coming from. I've been divorced for 12 years and still haven't found the right one for me. I'm still dating but it's very discouraging. I really don't know the answer.... sad2

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 11/16/08 09:26 PM

I am a pretty decent person, I have a good job and I have good morals. I have dated a few men after my divorce, but I waited about a year before I started. Why is it so hard to find compatibility? I dont go out a lot so that makes it really hard to meet others also. I am just getting lonley and I am trying real hard to have faith that my waiting is for a reason. I guess I needed to vent some..
tears




Uhhhh ya. Welcome to mine and 100's of other's on here worlds.

It's life in date lane sweets.

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