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buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 09:43 AM
Some people are perfectly happy always being the "victim" of every situation. It must be hard to live life that way, ya know. Always seeing the worse instead of relishing in the good. I personally see it as that I need to take a different approach on things until I get the result I want. My profile kinda gives that off. I get what I want, for that reason. Sometimes you need to adapt. The problem is, I don't think most of them know they're doing it. It's just that everything always happens to them. They have the worst luck ever. Poor poor poor me. Everyone should feel sorry for me for what happened to me. They really think they are entitled to everyone's pity. I know some people like that. They take no responsibility for how miserable their life is. I seriously ended a friendship with someone for that reason. I know it sounds harsh. But I have no room in my life for someone who is at that emotional level, ya know. I have no desire to need to pep talk someone constantly. Poor pitiful me! Hate that crap!

artcat Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 472	Sat 11/15/08 09:52 AM
The problem is, I don't think most of them know they're doing it. It's just that everything always happens to them. They have the worst luck ever. Poor poor poor me. Everyone should feel sorry for me for what happened to me. They really think they are entitled to everyone's pity. I know some people like that. They take no responsibility for how miserable their life is. I seriously ended a friendship with someone for that reason. I know it sounds harsh. But I have no room in my life for someone who is at that emotional level, ya know. I have no desire to need to pep talk someone constantly. Poor pitiful me! Hate that crap! It's completely emotionally draining for the friends of anyone who continues like that! Who could blame you for ending the relationship, it's supposed to be about give and take not you give and they take.

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 11/15/08 09:57 AM
Complainers suck the life out of me....no thanks.....and people that always see the glass half empty....boooshwaaaa......I am a happy person...so people who just complain and boo hoo.....keep it to yourself.....

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:11 AM
Complainers suck the life out of me....no thanks.....and people that always see the glass half empty....boooshwaaaa......I am a happy person...so people who just complain and boo hoo.....keep it to yourself..... Okay, remember what you asked me about...this thread is pertinent to what you were asking!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 11/15/08 10:14 AM
Some people are perfectly happy always being the "victim" of every situation. It must be hard to live life that way, ya know. Always seeing the worse instead of relishing in the good. I personally see it as that I need to take a different approach on things until I get the result I want. My profile kinda gives that off. I get what I want, for that reason. Sometimes you need to adapt. The problem is, I don't think most of them know they're doing it. It's just that everything always happens to them. They have the worst luck ever. Poor poor poor me. Everyone should feel sorry for me for what happened to me. They really think they are entitled to everyone's pity. I know some people like that. They take no responsibility for how miserable their life is. I seriously ended a friendship with someone for that reason. I know it sounds harsh. But I have no room in my life for someone who is at that emotional level, ya know. I have no desire to need to pep talk someone constantly. Poor pitiful me! Hate that crap! I did the same thing. People gave me crap for it too... I don't think it's harsh. She was killing me. It got to the point where I just didn't have it in me to be her friend. Nothing I did mattered because she was still the victim. I will help anyone who helps themselves. She refused to help herself. So I had to leave.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:19 AM
Some people are perfectly happy always being the "victim" of every situation. It must be hard to live life that way, ya know. Always seeing the worse instead of relishing in the good. I personally see it as that I need to take a different approach on things until I get the result I want. My profile kinda gives that off. I get what I want, for that reason. Sometimes you need to adapt. The problem is, I don't think most of them know they're doing it. It's just that everything always happens to them. They have the worst luck ever. Poor poor poor me. Everyone should feel sorry for me for what happened to me. They really think they are entitled to everyone's pity. I know some people like that. They take no responsibility for how miserable their life is. I seriously ended a friendship with someone for that reason. I know it sounds harsh. But I have no room in my life for someone who is at that emotional level, ya know. I have no desire to need to pep talk someone constantly. Poor pitiful me! Hate that crap! I did the same thing. People gave me crap for it too... I don't think it's harsh. She was killing me. It got to the point where I just didn't have it in me to be her friend. Nothing I did mattered because she was still the victim. I will help anyone who helps themselves. She refused to help herself. So I had to leave. Funny thing is...that I used to be one of those people! lol I did some hard work to get to the point where I am happy and content with who I am as a person. I am victim to no one, now and will never go back. I won't let anyone hinder that progress or my happiness for that matter. No one can fix anyone and I refuse to try. Helping is one thing, but you can never change the core of who someone is. It's all a choice and a pathetic one if you ask me!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 11/15/08 10:21 AM
so true

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:25 AM
bundt cake

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:25 AM
so true Right back atcha!

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:26 AM
bundt cake

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:28 AM
random obscenities

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:31 AM
random obscenities turettes??? hahahahah!

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:32 AM
well ya know they accuse me of BUTT LOVING ANAL PIRATE being a lil off once in a while

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:35 AM
well ya know they accuse me of BUTT LOVING ANAL PIRATE being a lil off once in a while Omg...that is pure humor at it's best! You crack me up!

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:36 AM
who me,, im completely normal and TWITCH sane

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Sat 11/15/08 10:39 AM
who me,, im completely normal and TWITCH sane Me too...long as I take my meds! lol

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:39 AM
xanax sammiches anyone??? valium milkshakes???

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sat 11/15/08 10:40 AM
Complainers suck the life out of me....no thanks.....and people that always see the glass half empty....boooshwaaaa......I am a happy person...so people who just complain and boo hoo.....keep it to yourself..... Okay, remember what you asked me about...this thread is pertinent to what you were asking! Well hard for me to determine that one...because I know only one side...and what I do know.....sorry but not right and just mean spirited...

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Sat 11/15/08 10:43 AM
the fah king nut rides again

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Sat 11/15/08 11:22 AM
I don't wanna fit in.........I like sitting in the corner playing with my rubik's cube and it's pretty colors and spraying silly string at people...........