my exboyfriend is engaged. I always felt sorry for him in a kind of way. ANY girl would marry him. He's nice, good looking, and rich.. not a whole lot of depth but who really needs that?

I hope he buys new sheets and replaces the maid for her.

Let it go!!!

Jealous much?

Ever hear the one about making lemonade when given lemons, sounds like your making whine....

Move on disconnect the vine

If he gets a new maid, do you think he will let me borrow his old one?

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa



everyone's a x for a reason right ?

I think my bfriend is too enamored of me. He may've gone blind. It may not work out though we are amiable and i semi-respect his manhood. Goodness oozes from every pore and angle of our relationship ..

I need to be disciplined, spanked, kindly told all the things i'm doing wrong right down to the way my heels hit the ground, the way i breathe or my inflection. I would also appreciate greatly if he more sternly regulated my meals.

Instead he is kind and forgiving, supportive and available and doing too much waiting.. waiting around to see what I am doing, what I am saying, how I am responding.

I need unpredictability, yearning, ego, disapproval, and when he gives way I must tremble in relief and fear of unknowing and then, only then will I be able to appreciate some kind of assurance.

Now, I can't really teach him those things, can I. It's going to take an authentic partial sadist egomaniac with a firm place in the world.

So, how to break up with a guy's been on your side, thinks he's doing everything RIGHT.

at least now you don't have to worry about breaking up with him

I need depth!

I've argued this with friends far and wide. I almost wish that I didn't have such a need.. and here, now I can go, do I actually need it...