Topic: Hi....new ....have a question.
Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 07:58 PM


whether or not you put out on first date


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oo fiesty.... i love it

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 11/13/08 07:58 PM
You put words in a profile?

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I thought profiles were for pics only. I havent seen anyone write anything about themselves in these so called profiles

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Thu 11/13/08 08:22 PM

Hi everyone. I am new to all this so I wanted to ask.

What kind of information do guys like to see in a girls profile? I really don't have a clue as to what I should write. Do I just list my interest or should I tell a story about myself?

Any help would be cool....thx.




Avoid stuff like:

"I don't know what to write here."

"Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask" (I'm not asking unless you give me something to ask about.)

"I'm laid back and easy going." (This is so overused it has no meaning anymore. Why doesn't someone write, "I'm prone to violence and easily driven to murderous outbursts" -- ?? Now THAT'S interesting.)

"I love my friends and family." (Really? Most of us hate ours.)

"I like going out or staying in." (Helpful.)

Basically, it's about content. Let your profile tell something about who you are, what you think about, what's important to you, what you want to do, where you want to go, who you're looking for.

More information is better than less. (But my profile is 3209 pages long.)

And have fun with it, because people will pick up on that.

Good luck!



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Thu 11/13/08 08:26 PM
Thx LexFonteyne. I seem to have avoided the bad stuff you listed. I already got a dozen message and only 2 are over 6 words. I think most of the guys are just looking at the pictures. I feel so violated. laugh

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Thu 11/13/08 08:27 PM

Thx LexFonteyne. I seem to have avoided the bad stuff you listed. I already got a dozen message and only 2 are over 6 words. I think most of the guys are just looking at the pictures. I feel so violated. laugh


Oh, I think you can expect lots more of those!

But not everyone here is wordophobic....

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 08:27 PM

Thx LexFonteyne. I seem to have avoided the bad stuff you listed. I already got a dozen message and only 2 are over 6 words. I think most of the guys are just looking at the pictures. I feel so violated. laugh

But in a good way right?? roflrofl rofl waving flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 11/13/08 09:19 PM
Edited by MindyMindy on Thu 11/13/08 09:20 PM
That "who viewed me" feature is freaking me out. The number keeps getting bigger really fast and it's making me feel creepy.

Stop looking at me. Talk to me. I am not a centerfold.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:20 PM
So what's the craziest thing you've done latelly ?

what what what

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:21 PM

That "who viewed me" feature is freaking me out. The number keeps getting bigger really fast and it's making feel creepy.

Stop looking at me. Talk to me. I am not a centerfold.
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
No but u could be if u didnt have taste and self respect!!!

no photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:21 PM

That "who viewed me" feature is freaking me out. The number keeps getting bigger really fast and it's making feel creepy.

Stop looking at me. Talk to me. I am not a centerfold.


That's actually not unusual. Those of us who post a lot can rack up a lot of views. I'm getting more than normal since I posted about Target listing my book on their website. Don't let it get to you. If yours are anything like mine, 98% of them will never say a thing to you!


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Thu 11/13/08 09:22 PM

So what's the craziest thing you've done latelly ?



Put my picture on a dating site for guys to oogle.

I live in a tiny town. That's about as crazy as life gets around here.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:22 PM
Don't mind the pervs,

i think we all get plenty,


Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:27 PM

Don't mind the pervs,

i think we all get plenty,




I dont get enough!!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:29 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Thu 11/13/08 09:29 PM
make a perv me thread,

you'll blow up


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drinker drinks

no photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:30 PM
Ok well I have to go watch the Craig Ferguson show. Bye everyone and thx for the nice welcome. Take good care of my new member posting line. Maybe I'll come back when the show is over.


Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:32 PM
cya hun nice meeting you,biggrin


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:32 PM

Ok well I have to go watch the Craig Ferguson show. Bye everyone and thx for the nice welcome. Take good care of my new member posting line. Maybe I'll come back when the show is over.



This is the longest new member posting i have ever seen...
lol ive kinda only been on here 3 days!!!! ahhhh:banana: :banana: :banana:

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:42 PM
id say you should write in your profile "the following things will get me to reply to your e-mail:" then list them


cit would make it easier on the guys who try to contact you

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:43 PM

id say you should write in your profile "the following things will get me to reply to your e-mail:" then list them


cit would make it easier on the guys who try to contact you

she put "people who LOVE fat women"
so ur out!!!!!! lol

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Thu 11/13/08 09:47 PM


Hi everyone. I am new to all this so I wanted to ask.

What kind of information do guys like to see in a girls profile? I really don't have a clue as to what I should write. Do I just list my interest or should I tell a story about myself?

Any help would be cool....thx.




Avoid stuff like:

"I don't know what to write here."

"Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask" (I'm not asking unless you give me something to ask about.)

"I'm laid back and easy going." (This is so overused it has no meaning anymore. Why doesn't someone write, "I'm prone to violence and easily driven to murderous outbursts" -- ?? Now THAT'S interesting.)

"I love my friends and family." (Really? Most of us hate ours.)

"I like going out or staying in." (Helpful.)

Basically, it's about content. Let your profile tell something about who you are, what you think about, what's important to you, what you want to do, where you want to go, who you're looking for.

More information is better than less. (But my profile is 3209 pages long.)

And have fun with it, because people will pick up on that.

Good luck!






^^^all good points

cept for the "more info the better" thing.
i mean yes thats great but if you look at it when your done and it feels like it is too much to read... it most likely wont be read.


while where on the subject, avoid things like "dont e-mail me if you havnt read my profile" or "dont ask me things i have already answered in my profile"...

that last one is so silly. conversations naturally start on things the average person would put in a profile.