ok confusion I dont know if I am by or gay or what but I am pretty sure I need to over come my fear and know.I am scared to show my picture because I am involved in a relationship WITH A GUY I have slept with a chick awhile back but we are friends and it did not seem right because we are friends and she is married her husband knew but what brought me to thinking this is that i had a good conversation with a chick on the internet and wished i was a guy for a moment because we related in so many ways and she was pretty and i have not felt a connection like that before help i am confused
SORRY ABOUT THE RUN ON SENTENCES I AM JUST CONFUSED

I really don't think someone else can answer this question for you. If you're attracted to men only you're straight. If you're attracted to both men and women, you're bi. If you're attracted only to women, you're gay.

I suppose there are degrees to this. Often times people are attracted to one gender or another but wouldn't have a relationship with them.

Then there is the simpler answer. There's no such thing as straight, bi, or gay.

I could say that it isn't that I'm not gay or bi, but that I've never come across on a man that I find attractive enough to want to be with.

i dont think any of us can help you. you have to figure it out yourself...

when ya do let us know!

That was quick, she's deactivated

Two and through...........

Stop trying to label yourself and go with what your heart tells you!

trying to label ones self is a pointless exercise.Most people fall somewhere along a line between 100% hetero and 100% homosexual...with most being nearer the hetero end. How many points are their between the two, and do they all have labels? Just be yourself and be the best person you can, it will all work out naturally.

here's the odd thing i notice about Bi's.


on a dating site they say they are into both sexes but they are only looking for one type.


if they're Bi,shouldn't they be looking for either?

This pretty much says it all!

One would think so.

Quite typically bi people seem to have a preference they date at any given time. Or are completing a more specific arrangement. This one has a boyfriend and was looking for a girl.

i would think the most diffiult thing fro a bisexual person would be commitment issues.

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I suspect there may be some sort of confusion surrounding her.