i agree with this.

no worries i'd clean it up

I can deal with the "lived in" look, I don't consider that messy.

i couldnt date a "messy slobby" person.

i like organization too much.

now my house is not totally clean right now..but it could be quite easily. i just get sick of cleaning for people to messy it up.

i jsut consdier myself organized...which is what is between neat/messy...perhaps

There is a difference between messy and filthy....

I must admit...I am changing my ways! I have been single for faaaar too long and only recently seen that I have indeed been doing a slow backslide as far as the dusting and vacuuming thing goes...

Now that I have someone...I fully realize that I have to get back to my daily upkeep of the domicile. Almost feel ashamed that I let my personal living space go abit...(Please note that I am a very clean and hygenic guy)...

But, after spending most of my adult life single..it is easy to fall into a rut of apathy....been yanked out of that rut by the short hairs and have recently found myself scrambling to make everything acceptable.

As long as he cleans up after himself I am fine with it. I am not doing it.

No! He doesn't have to be a neat freak or anything but somewhat organized.

...soo would u settle for a semi-messy lakerfan??

Hell No!!

No problem as long as they don't mind my cleaning up: no nasty crap though. Messy ain't bad, but not trashy!

Messy is cool as long as he isn't trashy messy. I don't mind seeing a guys house that's all disorganized and if he is my boyfriend I usually end up straightening his place up. I like to clean and organize.

I don't like garbage though. If a guy has garbage or left over food all around and his place smells bad then I am not interested in him. Garbage=rats and I don't like rats.