so i'm new to this an so far i don't think my profile is working. take a look and let me know what i should change or fix or add...whatever!

thanks!

No, honey your profile doesn't work for me at all. (You know what I mean).

You need to talk about YOU, who you are, and so forth. This isn't about your child or the people you don't want to meet. It sounds negative....

Take a look at mine. I know it's long, but I tried very very hard to insert my personality in there and be informative.

You need to make some serious changes. And your baby is darling.

Cute baby, negative profile. Yikes!!!
And, you don't have to sell yourself as good looking enough to deserve better. In the end, it ain't about looks.
Best wishes to you!!

trust me, your profile will never work bc 99% of the men don't actually READ them.

Whoa... yea I just read it You might wanna re-word that. The whole dirty Mexican and Black thing needs to go. You can date who you want. And you never have to respond to anyone. But no need to offend anyone in the process.

I think she should keep it just the way it is. The whole repugnant thing might work for her. No sense false advertising.

Does sound a bit racist IMHO

A bit?

I wouldnt even wipe myself with that profile it was so dirty

Oh oh oh... I feel so tactful. It is an odd feeling for me to have....

Just the FAT UGLY OLD GUYS part is going to lesson her chances by 99% alone

Seriously though, what was she thinking?

congrats

<----- Curtseying....

I would have to concur with everyone else. I did read the profile and to be honest it was a huge turn off.
I would scrap it and start fresh, talk about you, "who you are" where you are going in life, what you are looking for.
Here is a couple of suggestions you might like to follow.

1. Read a few profiles see how and what they wrote. Get a feel of what to say. Whatever you do don't copy and paste from someone else.

2. This is advice I give out alot on profile, picture yourself talking to a blind and deaf person that the only way they can see and get a feel for you is by reading your written word. Then go from there.

Profiles are just a taste of who you are, IMO they should be a glimpse of something to get them to want to know a bit more.
Good luck and Welcome to the site.

Your profile isn't "bad"...










It's REALLY BAD!!!!
What were you thinking?

After reading the little bit she wrote, I wouldn't want to get to know her here or in real life.

She's prob just getting a lot of emails from men she's not interested in so she's trying to avoid that. However, in the process she's also making other people avoid her as well. Like I said before, you don't have to respond to anyone, especially someone you're not interested in. Or a simple "no thank you" is just fine. But there is just no need to offend people with your comments. "Dirty Mexicans" for example is very offending.

I would guess this person, our OP, perhaps got several strange or offensive e-mails and then re-wrote her profile after that. You ladies know what I mean....

That's what I was getting at. I don't think she realized when writing it how much it will put other people off.

Wow 10,000 posts just rolled around for you. Congrats!