Thanks, and I think he does. He still wants to keep in contact as friends, but I'm going to give him his space for now, to get things sorted out. I think that is for the best.

(((((Ruth)))) Thanks

Right back into the meat grinder.

You know there's a very good chance this is temporary. But, one never knows.

My ex threatened to take the girls from me one time. I laughed and told him I'd give him one week before he was begging me to take them. He made it 4 days.

dont let her control your lives......
tell her" do what ya need to do" smile and walk away......when she see's whatever she's doing has no effect she will back off!!!!

also check with the local court system......some actually favor people that are in stable relationships over single parents.....

Hey, be careful. I got a pretty broad imagination And you know, I think you might want to go ahead and get that hug in before Krupa gets his shot in. No telling what he might do, lol.

That's true. But it will take a while to find out, being that he's gotta take her back to court to get this issue resolved once and for all. Cause if he doesn't, she'll just do the same thing to the next woman he meets.



That's easier said then done. When you haven't seen your children (and they are his world) in a week, and then you go to get them and she says no and won't budge, it not only hurts him deeply, but makes him so angry, it's hard for him to be rational. And the police wont do anything because they consider it a domestic dispute, and so they keep telling him he has to go back to court, which is what he is in the process of doing now.

I believe we made the right choice in doing this. Like I said, the only thing I ever wanted was for him to be happy and to have his girls. And if that means me stepping aside for that to happen, then so be it.

Ugh, I can already hear the crank turning

I believe you made the right choice as well.

Thank you Ruth. Coming from you, that means a lot