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Topic: desicions on relationship
unsure's photo
Mon 11/17/08 06:57 PM
OK don't walk away..RUN!! If she had someone send something saying she tried to kill herself because you tried to end it, I am thinking that you are dealing with a psycho!!
I honestly don't believe you can have feelings for anyone after only a few weeks. You don't know the real person in a few weeks, sometimes you don't even know that person after a lifetime.
I would say don't have any contact with this person...don't email her, be thankful you are away from her!!

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 11/19/08 06:17 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Wed 11/19/08 06:20 PM
She did not say this after she had sex with you,
did she?

She may just getting her feelings confused especially if there has been some sexual interaction between you too, cuz she may feels that she loves you after having sex with you.
Sex can be a very emotional thing for us women.
It can cloud up our mind a little.



I don't think you are the rebound guy. (Not after 3 years).but she is prolly yearning for a relationship for sure..prolly enjoys your company a whole lot.

If you are not feeling her the same way, just let her know that you like her alot but you are not in love with her.

If you feel that it is all moving to fast, and you cannot see yourself of ever loving her back, well then tell her that too.

She will get over it this early on, but not in a few months or soo..it will be very hard.

Oh I just read the "I am gonna kill myself" part..WOW umm sounds like she may have a problem..she is not gonna kill herself over you of course..but yea I would like break up w/ her completly..thats a little too CRAZY!-STALKER ALERT..time to change your number, umm your e-mail..maybe even move out of town..lol Just kidding about the moving thing!

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