I know your not a man, shenadra; just one He-- of a woman.
Thank god for that.

Thank you very much

As for me, I like to cuddle befroe during and after sex and even when
sex is not an option. I have actually been told I like to cuddle too
much (dont ask me why...).
And all the rest are fairly accurate too. The only major difference
would be theone about sports. i dont like to watch sports or even tv
that much to begin with, so ti would not even be an issue with me.

ya i'd have to agree. Those are all points i value and want. Its very
accurate.

Well, I guess we know where all the girly men are.........

FANTA YUR SPLITTIN MY GUT BRO!!! LMAO

I think it all sounds good and accurate, but as soon as someone tries to
bottle it. It changes. Look how many smart people write books and poems
and articles all trying to get to the root of it all. Alot of them come
close, but to me its like theology, you can talk about it all day and in
the end, you are right back where you started.

It is for real Jane

Real men would suck it up and admit the truth, I want all the above, but
also want a woman that I enjoy treating well. I want a partner in life,
one that enjoys what I enjoy and visa versa.

Wow, this really made me think.

I've always been concerned about what the woman wants. A woman wondering
what I feel or desire? Now there's a concept that I could get used to.

As far as the article: I can only speak for one man

1. Cuddling = anytime, if you're not totally exhausted.

2. Who dates models? Personality is a huge plus! This means no control
issues and limited nagging.

4. I totally disagree here. When I'm doing well in life, the last thing
I need is an extra ego boost. Maybe when I'm feeling down or to notice
that I care about something. It might be that I'm just too
self-confident, who knows.

5. As long as the man or the woman pays the bill. I feel uncomfortable
splitting anything. I don't mind if a woman pays, but if she does, I'd
like it if she insisted on paying.

7. It's not actually unusual spots to have sex that turn guys on, it's
anywhere and anytime. It just seems unusual because of where it ends up
being at the time.

8. This seems to be what both sexes want at times. Only that, I don't
desire somebody to vent on, I want them to actually have a conversation
with me.

9. I totally agree here. To have a woman behind you when you're trying
to do something important gives us such a feeling of strength. There's
nothing that I can't do when I have a great partner who supports me.

10. True. Women need to realize that men can actually have good platonic
relationships with women. My two best friends are women. If anybody that
I'm seeing has a problem with that, they are'nt going to last long.

11. I love a woman who takes the lead.

12. Yes. No assumptions. Communicate everything. If you're serious
enough to have sex, then you should be open enough to talk.

Wow....gentlemen, I am impressed! Nice to hear back from the men. Yes,
we do care! And yes, your feelings are just as important as our's.

Fanta, shame on you hun, lol.

Monier....loved your post. Awesome!