Topic: Have i been played?
romeo1975's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:26 PM
Ok so here is the situation... i was on this dating site talking to this woman who was the same age and state, and we seemed to hit it off, well she gave me her phone number and i tried to call, but when i called all i got was a tone like it was a fax machine or something, i even double-checked the # to make sure...
But on the flip side she accepted my friendship request on facebook, but will not respond to any of my emails... what should i do??

bgeorge's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:27 PM
keep lookin'

directandwrite's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:27 PM

Ok so here is the situation... i was on this dating site talking to this woman who was the same age and state, and we seemed to hit it off, well she gave me her phone number and i tried to call, but when i called all i got was a tone like it was a fax machine or something, i even double-checked the # to make sure...
But on the flip side she accepted my friendship request on facebook, but will not respond to any of my emails... what should i do??


Look up the number on whitepages.com and see if you can get any info that way...

txmomof2's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:28 PM
I THINK SHE PLAYED YOU HUN!

JUST LET HER GO. SHE ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME ANYHOW!

romeo1975's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:28 PM


Ok so here is the situation... i was on this dating site talking to this woman who was the same age and state, and we seemed to hit it off, well she gave me her phone number and i tried to call, but when i called all i got was a tone like it was a fax machine or something, i even double-checked the # to make sure...
But on the flip side she accepted my friendship request on facebook, but will not respond to any of my emails... what should i do??


Look up the number on whitepages.com and see if you can get any info that way...
i tried that, and there is no listing of her in there or on 411

directandwrite's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:29 PM
Kick her to the curb then and find someone genuine...

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:30 PM
Don't waste your time....!noway

MsCarmen's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:32 PM
You got played. It's just like the guy in the bar that asks the girl for her phone # and she gives him the wrong #. Same thing, only this time it was on a dating site. Sorry you had this done to you. Better luck next time. flowerforyou

Totage's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:32 PM

Ok so here is the situation... i was on this dating site talking to this woman who was the same age and state, and we seemed to hit it off, well she gave me her phone number and i tried to call, but when i called all i got was a tone like it was a fax machine or something, i even double-checked the # to make sure...
But on the flip side she accepted my friendship request on facebook, but will not respond to any of my emails... what should i do??


Stop calling my fax machine it's in a relationship with my computer. :tongue:

Sounds like someone running a scam.

no photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:32 PM
if you have to ask, then ...

no photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:33 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Sat 11/08/08 06:36 PM
Have you actually asked her about it? You did say she accepted your friendship on facebook. Perhaps you should send her an email and ask her about it, rather than guessing.

no photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:35 PM
Some people do have fax machines at home and she may just not have the phone plugged in

brian325's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:38 PM
if she wants a fax then fax her a pic of yer buttocks & tell her 2 kiss it, lol.

no photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:40 PM
she gave you a fake phone number and won't email you back...

sounds like you don't have to do anything. she already did it

RKISIT's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:40 PM

if she wants a fax then fax her a pic of yer buttocks & tell her 2 kiss it, lol.
laugh laugh laugh

romeo1975's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:44 PM

Have you actually asked her about it? You did say she accepted your friendship on facebook. Perhaps you should send her an email and ask her about it, rather than guessing.
yea i sent her a message on facebook and also through her yahoo account, but have not heard anything

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:45 PM
Okay I have a few questions that aren't clear here to give a concise answer.
First how long ago did you send the email has she been on line since you sent them..
Also just because you can't find her in a reverse directory doesn't mean squat since you wont' find ANY public records of me on the internet since I have taken great pains to have them hidden. You will find a lot of misinformation.
Also she could very well have a fax machine at her home.
I think if it was me. I would send an email in all CAPS stating last email need response ASAP.
Then I would nonconfrontationally tell her what you think and how you feel if there is still now response then yes she isn't interested.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:46 PM

Okay I have a few questions that aren't clear here to give a concise answer.
First how long ago did you send the email has she been on line since you sent them..
Also just because you can't find her in a reverse directory doesn't mean squat since you wont' find ANY public records of me on the internet since I have taken great pains to have them hidden. You will find a lot of misinformation.
Also she could very well have a fax machine at her home.
I think if it was me. I would send an email in all CAPS stating last email need response ASAP.
Then I would nonconfrontationally tell her what you think and how you feel if there is still now response then yes she isn't interested.

ok will do that, i mean after all, she is only human, and i was just looking for some advice, thanks for the words of wisdom

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:48 PM


Okay I have a few questions that aren't clear here to give a concise answer.
First how long ago did you send the email has she been on line since you sent them..
Also just because you can't find her in a reverse directory doesn't mean squat since you wont' find ANY public records of me on the internet since I have taken great pains to have them hidden. You will find a lot of misinformation.
Also she could very well have a fax machine at her home.
I think if it was me. I would send an email in all CAPS stating last email need response ASAP.
Then I would nonconfrontationally tell her what you think and how you feel if there is still now response then yes she isn't interested.

ok will do that, i mean after all, she is only human, and i was just looking for some advice, thanks for the words of wisdom

Thank you very much I am glad that you didn't take my post as a bash towards you or her. I also honestly don't believe anyone can be played unless they allow it.
Good luck.

romeo1975's photo
Sat 11/08/08 06:50 PM
ty, i just know what kinda numbskull i can be, and i dont like being taken advantage of, especially when it comes to my heart, or my friends