Community > General Discussion

Previous 1 2 Next

Topic: Sad Days
purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Sat 04/07/07 10:56 AM
Well you guys keep seein a sad cat every day I know (well I gave you guys the day off yesterday and tried not to be such a sad sack ,, well today is one of the saddest days of the year for me April 7 1997 we put my Dads ashes in the Ocean , April 7 2006 we put my moms ashes in the Ocean , April 7 was my moms Birthday ,, April 7 is a hard day for me , I dont like the idea that they got thrown to the fish , I miss my Mom and Dad ,,ALOT and life is hard ALONE with three kids...

ScottyBravo Joined Mon 02/26/07 Posts: 9613	Sat 04/07/07 10:59 AM
The best way I find to deal the loss of friends and family is to remember & celibrate my fond memories of them, remember the fact that they would not want you to be sad, but happy for the time you had together.<<<BIG HUGE HUGS for Purple>>>

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Sat 04/07/07 11:01 AM
thanks ((((((((Scotty )))))))) Its raining now ,,, I try ,,lots goin on ,,I'm a basket case

sweetklp40 Joined Tue 01/23/07 Posts: 4498	Sat 04/07/07 11:27 AM
ahhhh, purple..im sorry..i know how u feel, i lost my mother 5 yrs ago, 6 this coming august..but u have people that care about ya.. and know she is so happy and at peace. ..its alright girlfriend..you have a very happy easter..

catchme_ifucan Joined Fri 11/03/06 Posts: 24221	Sat 04/07/07 11:44 AM
((((((((((((((((((((PURPLE SIS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm sooo sorry! http://www.spiritsite.com/writing/jamvan/part5.shtml here is a site for James Van Praagh on healing!

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Sat 04/07/07 11:58 AM
awwwwwwwwww thanks catch ,, click added to my faves ..I will check it out..

Greyhound Joined Fri 08/11/06 Posts: 20290	Sat 04/07/07 12:09 PM
purplecat How sad, I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you. I can not beleive what i'm reading here with all the 7's. My dad died on a 7, my mom died on a 7, they died 7 years from one another. My first and second husband died on a 7. I had two vehicle accidents in my life and they both happened on the 7th of May. This is so unbeleivable. My prayers are with you girl.

joe1973 Joined Thu 11/09/06 Posts: 1074	Sat 04/07/07 01:19 PM
april 9 1992 my mom passed away.may 10 1990 my grandma and both were laid to rest on the 14th.23 months apart.those four dates as well as november 6 and december 16 are very hard for me.my heart goes out to ALL who have lost a loved one.my dad passed away on janurary 24 2007.he was creamated(against his wishes).and the "wake" was a week and 2 days later.

LAMom Joined Tue 12/12/06 Posts: 26866	Sat 04/07/07 01:20 PM
((((((Purple))))))) My Father died when I was 16 and my Mother died 7 years later,, Purple,, Remember they may not be with us in presence yet in my Heart and Soul they Live,,, Smile and remember the good times with them,, For its those memories I carry with me everyday Love you Purple,,, Hugs & Kisses to you

Ms_Scorpio71 Joined Sun 03/25/07 Posts: 425	Sat 04/07/07 01:23 PM
Well cheer up purple because 7's is a sign of angels, and somtime if u are still enough u will feel their presence I know I lost my mom in 1996 and my only sibiling in 2000 so I know what u are going through but hold on they are with u everyday :)

Ms_Scorpio71 Joined Sun 03/25/07 Posts: 425	Sat 04/07/07 01:25 PM
Stay positive it gets better in time

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sat 04/07/07 07:40 PM
Hey Purple ..I'm sorry you feel that way. My mom was diagnosed in Jan. with terminal cancer.I know what "sad" is ........I am also a single mom with 3 kids and she is like my best friend. I am sad but, more sad for her..tommarrow won't be easy. God Bless

romee Joined Tue 08/15/06 Posts: 14265	Sat 04/07/07 08:48 PM
i'm really sorry purplecat.

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Sat 04/07/07 08:53 PM
Hey purplecat they never left you.......... I lost my father may 15 2003 and I know when that date comes around I get real sad..........but on that day I really feel him,in my heart.

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Sat 04/07/07 09:26 PM
Thanks eh ,, I just dont know what to say today , wanna say somethin ,, tommorrow will be easier

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Sat 04/07/07 09:37 PM
awwwwwwwww puple cat so sorry..

Marie55 Joined Wed 08/30/06 Posts: 7007	Sat 04/07/07 10:13 PM
Purple I am so sorry, wish there was something I could do to help. Only time will help you get through it, and your friends on here. Anniversaries of these dates are always hard. How sad that these happened on the same date. Take care and if you want to talk, send me an e-mail. Take care.

josehon Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 2363	Sat 04/07/07 10:17 PM
awwww...i'm so sorry to hear that purple hugs

Kevin3824 Joined Tue 11/28/06 Posts: 2031	Sat 04/07/07 10:53 PM
Purple you know how to reach me if you ant to talk anytime

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Sat 04/07/07 10:59 PM
Thanks Kev , I am just sittin back bein quiet, another hour and it will be the 8th , that will help , my brain might partcially return tommorrow ,, ya ,it will be another day ,, this place is a good distraction , sit and watch ...