Well, spending time together would be a good start. I just don't think it can happen as soon as you see someone.

I believe that a person can attract you to them through many words, or type, or spoken in voice.
I believe your mind can see a picture and feel a great WOW. Their FANTASTIC!!!! BEAUTIFUL! WOW.
But until two people really SHARE companionship
together for awhile, it IS just a LUSTING THOUGHT
of being closer, for whatever lust that person is feeling missed. If after meeting each other and sharing time together BOTH still feel their first thoughts MORE, then,,,and only then,,, would I call it "LOVE". But thats just MY opinion,lol.

That's a good opinion.

But...it's far from the truth. My experiences with love was not at first sight. Nor where other people's that I know.
That doesn't mean that we have a hard time trusting our own hearts.

You have the potential for greater happiness, love, and understanding. Singing HU can bring these to you—through the Light and Sound of God.

Throughout the ages, followers of many spiritual traditions have used prayer, the singing of holy words, and meditation to bring themselves closer to God. In the same way, those who have discovered HU, an ancient name for God, sing it for their spiritual upliftment.

Regardless of your beliefs or religion, you can sing HU to become happier and more secure in God's love.

A Divine Connection

Eckankar teaches that a spiritual essence, the Light and Sound, connects everyone with the heart of God. This Light and Sound is the ECK, or the Holy Spirit. Direct experience with these twin aspects of God opens the deep spiritual potential within each of us. The Light and Sound purify, uplift, and direct us on our journey home to God.

Singing HU draws us closer in our state of consciousness to the Divine Being. This is its purpose. It is for those who desire spiritual love, freedom, wisdom, and truth.

An Invitation to Sing HU

You are invited to try this simple spiritual exercise. It has helped people of many different faiths open their hearts more fully to the uplifting presence of God.

To do the exercise, first get comfortable. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Next, gently put your attention on your inner visual screen, where daydreams and images come to you.

With your eyes closed, sing HU (pronounced like the word hue) as a song of love. You may notice a feeling of peace, warmth, and comfort. You may also recognize the presence of the Divine through greater spiritual insights into your daily life. There are many ways to experience the love of God.

When you sing HU and sit in quiet contemplation, you might also perceive the inner Light and Sound. The Light may appear as brightness or colors on your inner visual screen. The Sound may be musical or the sounds of nature, such as the wind or the ocean. However you experience the presence of God, it is bringing you a broader understanding of the life you lead.


“As you chant the name of God, with love, for twenty minutes a day, the bindings and bands that constrain Soul will begin to unwind. Not all at once, but very slowly, at a rate you can understand and accept. As these bindings are released, Soul rises in spiritual freedom.

“As Soul, you are like a balloon that rises above the ground. The higher you go, the farther you can see. And the farther you can see, the better you can plan your life.”

1. I believe we make our own destiny

2. Yes i believe in love at first sight. I once fell in love with a guy who had gorgeous green eyes and a smile to die for as he was being chased by a sea of about thirty 4-5 year olds. The joy on his face and his goofy nature was apparent in that first meeting. I was in luuurve .
It all depends on what he was doing when we met and what it says about his character.

3. no... you eventually get bored of having sex, you need someone who is interesting in other areas. A sense of humour and intelligence kicks ass.

that about sums it up

do believe in destiny, love at first sight, is a memory I will treasure always, and one without the other, makes no sense to me...

they also thought man can not fly, until experienced...

Belief is the end of all inquiry.

Only you can decide what a waste of time is.

this is where the spiritual comes into play; where you FEEL that person you are with!!!

Yes, Yes, and No.
But...while waiting for Destiny, live it up!
But...until you see the ONE, get a life!
But...have a physical relationship to keep your head straight, while waiting for the first two items to prove true.

The external is what attracts us . The internal,personalities is the reason we bond .
How do pheromones work . Superficially we are visual, or even scent makes us drawn together . Very basic . I am a student of the cereal , not just the box.

No. The problem with destiny, is that if you accept that it exists, then there must be someone or something dictating/directing the destiny. Now you're postulating some kind of supernatural entity or being, and I cannot accept that idea. Not saying it isn't true, just that I have never seen anything to support it.



I believe in intense attraction at first sight. Love at first sight is another thing entirely.



Quite the opposite. Most of my relationships have been short-term; there was nothing there that would allow for anything to build to the point where it could become a whole lot more than physical.

I would consider ALL of those to have been a waste of time.

At this point, I would really only be interested in something that transcended the physical. Which is a lot harder to find, apparently.