Topic: How do you a guy is really into me in Cleveland Ohio?
Nicegirl030's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:17 PM
Edited by Nicegirl030 on Sun 11/02/08 04:25 PM
How would you know if a guy is really into me and by my looks or interesting in Cleveland Ohio? See I am single white who is shy looking for a nice guy who won't treat me bad. Is there any help for me or ideas? Please feel free to give me a good respond.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:22 PM
Stop looking for the "nice" guy :wink:

Nicegirl030's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:25 PM
Why should I stop seeing a nice guy. tears :banana: rant tears rant

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Sun 11/02/08 04:26 PM
Hun, this is like the 4th time we have read something similar from you. If someone is treating you badly you have to look inward and find out why you are allowing it. Maybe now is not the time to be looking for a guy but rather finding out more about yourself? If your dead set on dating right now look for people who have similar ideals and ask questions before you agree to a date. Above all, NEVER allow someone to walk all over you. Good Luck.

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:27 PM
nice girl everyone is nice for a period of time. its not how the person is going to run the sprint but how they will withstand the marathonnoway

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:27 PM
Because "nice" guys don't have balls! And stay clear of the a$$holes too! Just go for the "great" guy and you'll get exactly what you want and need!flowerforyou flowerforyou

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:28 PM
by the way i am not all that far from you and i am nice.. im just a short drive away

greekguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:34 PM
It shouldn't be that hard. Relationships, no matter what the intention shouldn't be that hard. Whether you are looking for a friend or something more, it should just sort of click. A lot of people are insecure about meeting people, I know I am, but if conversations and activities just kinda have a natural flow to them you can tell that the person is interested in getting to know you better.

Nicegirl030's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:35 PM
Thanks for letting me know what's going on or trying to help me. I know everybody isn't perfect finding the right person in there life. I just have to make chance in my life who I want trust and meet in my life. heathersaygobucks :banana: tears :banana: tears :banana: tears

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Sun 11/02/08 04:39 PM

Thanks for letting me know what's going on or trying to help me. I know everybody isn't perfect finding the right person in there life. I just have to make chance in my life who I want trust and meet in my life. heathersaygobucks :banana: tears :banana: tears :banana: tears


Of course you ultimately have to decide. Use your gut instincts and get out when it doesn't feel right. I'm just saying when people say the same things over and over it kind of loses its meaning.
It's never about being perfect. Hell if that was the case none of us would ever find love. It's about finding the one that is perfect for YOU.

Nicegirl030's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:52 PM
ok Heathersaysgobuck. I just need a change and to try push myself more and I don't know where to start off. tears rant tears ohwell frown frown frown

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:53 PM
when you go in search of the perfect one you inadvertantly look past a few imperfections that could have been polished. the saying goes there is somebody out there for everyone... maybe true maybe not. you cant learn from a mistake unless you make one.

Nicegirl030's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:55 PM
ok tundraguy. I made alot of mistakes and lies too. I just don't want get my self hopes up on a guy. I wish I could be more social but Iam not and feel shame of myself. tears tears frown frown tears frown embarassed embarassed

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 05:43 PM

ok tundraguy. I made alot of mistakes and lies too. I just don't want get my self hopes up on a guy. I wish I could be more social but Iam not and feel shame of myself. tears tears frown frown tears frown embarassed embarassed


i feel the same as you. you start investing a few heart strings in someone and then you get hit in the face with the frying pan. if only there was a gadget that could detect a decent one or a not so decent one. i think the way the world is being molded people feel they need to lie steal and cheat to get what they want. im not conforming. am i greatest guy? no.. i have done dumb hurtful things.

tundraguy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 05:45 PM
last nite i turned an invite fro ma friend to go have a beer cause i told her i didnt want to go out and get my hopes up on finding a nice girl to talk with and have fun, and end up going home disappointed on not getting out of the nite what i wanted.