no reason to get upset,,, hell,, its a good question... and no offense taken buck

Correction...was a good question...

well,, however you see it.

i do pose good questions,, and half the time it gets turned into something that i cant stand, but i get over it cause i know no matter what i do that they are going to have their say. whether intelligent or not. some like to have fun, some like to be serious, some like to be assholes, some are just dumb. never worry bout what they say. if you dont like what they say just ignore them, dont waste your time worrying about them,, what do they matter in the long run?

its called "sense of humour"...
look it up

True mate, very true...perhaps I did overreact, but at the same time I was looking for serious answers and recieved few. I don't deny that you pose good questions, that came out wrong I suppose...no hard feelings mate at least non intended.

Sense of direction...look it up...

as far as your question,,,, heres what i have already said,, and will say again to my children when they are ready to understand what this world is about;



dont take anything for granted, dont expect a damn thing for free,, nothing is promised and nothing will be gained by doing nothing

the two concepts arent mutually exclusive

Do you crack laughs? Joke around? Sometimes I put in an intelligent answer, opinion, or remark; but there are plenty of people out there that log into this site because they find it entertaining and fun. I receive compliments all the time, about how I cheered their day up with my laughter and humor. Then, I alos have people message me, telling me they love my personality and that I keep them laughing. I don't care if you find me annoying, or however you do. But, intelligence goes a long way with me. Now, when you can keep someone laughing enough throughout a hard stressful day where in the earlier part of that day, they had felt so down and depressed, but they ended up cheering up because of your posts in the forums; maybe you'll see where I come from. Am I going to report you? F@ck no, because I could give a sh!t less what you think of me and my posts. I have friends here that love me for 'em!

Explain...please?

Sense of humor is a good thing, and I do have one...when posed with a serious question it tends to cease and I answer with serious intentions, go ahead look up my posts...what is the difficulty?

i have a sense of direction, i am one of the most driven and introspective people u'd probably meet, but at the same time i dont throw a hissy fit when i dont get my way, when people want to have fun instead of be serious every seond of the day. Having a purpose, having a sense of direction doesnt mean i have to be a humourless prick. The two concepts can co-exist in one person and in one thread.

That is what i meant...

I give a joke, then I get real,,because thats just my own little deal...

Bingo, so few do this...disappointing really.

Again, look up my past posts...

Now, for my serious answer...

...I'd tell the kid like I did my 2 I have now, before they were born...

...Daddy's going to always love you with every beat of his heart and do the best he can to make sure you are happy as can be. Straight up, you're coming into a World that f@ckin sucks, but I'm going to make sure that it doesn't for you!

theres no reason for anyone to be upset,, i wasnt trying to start trouble,, and i didnt take offense to what fear said. he makes good posts,, engraven makes me laugh my ass off,, i have respect for both of yall. some people dont have the same sense of humor i do,, and some people dont use music as part of life like fear. i happen to use it for a large part of my life,, and i caught on to what he was doing. and i think its a great question one should ask themself before having a child.

Half the time here, folks take over the posters thread because the poster does not stay on top of their post. And the hits or two people talking,,will talk over the thread with no respect to the op.
And until all learn how to run their own posts, other's will continue to not even know, or never KNOW to care.

will do sir... you have an enjoyable remainder of your night