Alright look, i've driven myself half crazy over the last few weeks, and now i'm on the verge of putting it all away, I would appreciate some points of view on what went down for me, and if i'm thinking the right way.

Ok, the deal is, i got talking to a girl a while back, and got interested. In return she's shown interest back, though i suspect not as much as me.

I live about three hour's drive away, and with a busy schedule for both of us, means meetings could often be weeks apart.

In the first week, she slept with another guy, not so much because she liked him, but because she needed to scratch an itch. I was put off, but i eventually put it aside.

Since then, i've been competing with another guy for her affections, and now two guys. These guys live a lot closer than i do, and i'm realising that i'm fighting one hell of a losing battle. I'm not sure where i rank in the list, but at this rate, i just cant see me winning this one.

So when i speak to her tomorrow, i'm quitting the game, and i suspect i should have done so ages ago anyway. Am I right?

"So when i speak to her tomorrow, i'm quitting the game, and i suspect i should have done so ages ago anyway. Am I right?"

Yep, move on and find someone who appreciates you...

you are right.. deff move on, your better then that. You can do better, she sounds like a player to me. Goodluck sweetie!!

Yes....let her go....thats a bad deal

Yep, you got the right idea. Move on and good luck with your search!

Good good. I have a tendancy to get paranoid about these things and making wrong snap judgements.

yes, you are most definitely right

yes your right. You should have left when she slept with someone else within those first couple of weeks.

Yeah, I know. However, that's easier said than done when one has gone this many years without getting squat :P

well then bang her first and then dump her

Yup.

Well you called it right in my book.
In the first week she had to sleep with another guy hasn't she ever heard of a cold shower or a whirlpool or for that matter of taking care of matters herself. Gee whiz...
I am sorry but this whole post sounds like it is a game for her period.
I am sure you can find someone more deserving of your affections than her.
Good luck

The LDRs are hard enough to make work, even without competition from those who have better access.

One more reason I don't do LDRs.