Topic: Condemnation or Redemption ?
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Sat 11/01/08 12:52 PM
5 month's ago my former girlfriend and I hit a rough spot.

Rather then sit and hash the issues out....she chose to shut me out.

After a month of waiting for her talk...I gave up !

Well this morning I'm checking my emails...and boom...she wrote.

She did not start with an apology or anything just...I hope all is well with you and I'd like to get together and talk.

Honestly....I can't decide what to do !

I'm still pissed at her...anybody in a relationship, who decides to shut the other out has abandoned the relationship...it's possibly the most selfish thing one can do.

On the other hand....I miss her...!
We were buddy's....and part of me will always love her.

I don't know what she wants...if it's good news...or bad.

I'm confused....HELP !

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Sat 11/01/08 12:53 PM
Yeah baby- touch that rough spot..yeah, yeah, that's it...YEAH! Right THERE!

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Sat 11/01/08 12:53 PM
tell her exactly that

ledi180's photo
Sat 11/01/08 12:54 PM
I'd probably hear her out and see if there were decisions to be made at that point.

Good luck!

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Sat 11/01/08 12:55 PM
im loosely going through the same thing your going through. all i know its hell on your nerves. explode

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Sat 11/01/08 12:56 PM

Yeah baby- touch that rough spot..yeah, yeah, that's it...YEAH! Right THERE!


Yeah !

SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 11/01/08 12:56 PM

I'd probably hear her out and see if there were decisions to be made at that point.

Good luck!


Like...she's prego...?

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Sat 11/01/08 01:08 PM
well, one i would sit down and talk, but you need to know that its something she's gonna work on, and once you know the answer to that, then you'll know if she's someone worth your time

good luck

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Sat 11/01/08 01:12 PM

Yeah baby- touch that rough spot..yeah, yeah, that's it...YEAH! Right THERE!

laugh laugh laugh laugh Sounds like that to me:tongue:

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Sat 11/01/08 02:49 PM

well, one i would sit down and talk, but you need to know that its something she's gonna work on, and once you know the answer to that, then you'll know if she's someone worth your time

good luck


Because of what she did changed who she is....I don't know who she is anymore.

Therefore I don't know what we'd talk about !