Topic: I HATE
zanne46's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:10 PM
Alcholics.....

especially when it's ur own mom...

She is not nice....

I am her target....always have been..

I have been patient..with her...during my time here..here unforunately..

But tonight she said something...actually a few things..but the one sent me over the edge and I started screaming at her..

I'm not a mean person..I am a caretaker, quiet and kind no matter what is going on...

Now I feel horrible..worse than I did all day..

with a migraine that I eventually had to go to bed....

Ok..I vented...I wish I could say I feel better..

but I don't...

:cry: sad brokenheart frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you for listening...:heart:

tanyaann's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:14 PM
Oh sweets having an addiction in the family is not easy. You might have snapped and feel bad, but look at it from this perspective... at that point you would no longer an able her to do that. Sometimes it is needed to yell and scream b/c sometimes that is the only way to get through. Take your deep breaths. Relax. Breathe in for a count of four through your nose, hold for a count of four, exhale through your nose for a count of four and continue to do that until you calm down! Will help a little with an oncoming migraine too.


no photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:14 PM
bummer

writer_gurl's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:17 PM
I hate alcoholics too...They can be just :angry: and spiteful. I am sorry ur mom said things to you and it was okay to get a little mad
Please, noway feel bad. Maybe she had what you said coming to her....and it's okay to vent:angel:

GOALLTHEWAY's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:18 PM
Edited by GOALLTHEWAY on Fri 10/31/08 06:19 PM

Alcholics.....

especially when it's ur own mom...

She is not nice....

I am her target....always have been..

I have been patient..with her...during my time here..here unforunately..

But tonight she said something...actually a few things..but the one sent me over the edge and I started screaming at her..

I'm not a mean person..I am a caretaker, quiet and kind no matter what is going on...

Now I feel horrible..worse than I did all day..

with a migraine that I eventually had to go to bed....

Ok..I vented...I wish I could say I feel better..

but I don't...

:cry: sad brokenheart frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you for listening...:heart:


Hey Leather Neck. Get a grip. Time to reach down and grab some son. You are an adult now and you need to understand that Moms and Dads have problems just like you. I know it hurts but you just have to suck it up and keep moving.

She will be dead one day and you will feel bad if you don’t get the chance to tell her how you feel about her behavior

. You do the best you can do Devil Dog and you will have a clear conscious when she is gone. She is being mean because she is full of pain and misery loves company.

Act like a man and tell her not us.

Winx's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:20 PM

Alcholics.....

especially when it's ur own mom...

She is not nice....

I am her target....always have been..

I have been patient..with her...during my time here..here unforunately..

But tonight she said something...actually a few things..but the one sent me over the edge and I started screaming at her..

I'm not a mean person..I am a caretaker, quiet and kind no matter what is going on...

Now I feel horrible..worse than I did all day..

with a migraine that I eventually had to go to bed....

Ok..I vented...I wish I could say I feel better..

but I don't...

:cry: sad brokenheart frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you for listening...:heart:


You didn't cause it, you can't cure it, and you can't control it.

I'm sorry you had to go through that.flowerforyou

krupa's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:24 PM
The guy is just venting to an impersonal crowd....if it is that painful...don't bother posting. ...Damn Go....Cut the man some slack....could easily be either one of us in this situation with no one to vent to.

So....Z.....Not all of us alcoholics have personally done you wrong bro....some of us could end up to be far more intelligent and reliable than the sober ones. Gotta dislike people on an individual basis.....Not all of us drunkards have earned your wrath....(Give me about 10 minutes...I am sure I can p%ss you off)

livelife68's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:26 PM
It's not your fault and you can't control what your mother does. Don't worry about venting...talking helps. Take care of yourself too. flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:29 PM
Edited by Winx on Fri 10/31/08 06:30 PM


Alcholics.....

especially when it's ur own mom...

She is not nice....

I am her target....always have been..

I have been patient..with her...during my time here..here unforunately..

But tonight she said something...actually a few things..but the one sent me over the edge and I started screaming at her..

I'm not a mean person..I am a caretaker, quiet and kind no matter what is going on...

Now I feel horrible..worse than I did all day..

with a migraine that I eventually had to go to bed....

Ok..I vented...I wish I could say I feel better..

but I don't...

:cry: sad brokenheart frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you for listening...:heart:


Hey Leather Neck. Get a grip. Time to reach down and grab some son. You are an adult now and you need to understand that Moms and Dads have problems just like you. I know it hurts but you just have to suck it up and keep moving.

She will be dead one day and you will feel bad if you don’t get the chance to tell her how you feel about her behavior

. You do the best you can do Devil Dog and you will have a clear conscious when she is gone. She is being mean because she is full of pain and misery loves company.

Act like a man and tell her not us.



WTF. Why are you being so rude to her?

It helps to talk about it and not feel alone.




zanne46's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:33 PM

The guy is just venting to an impersonal crowd....if it is that painful...don't bother posting. ...Damn Go....Cut the man some slack....could easily be either one of us in this situation with no one to vent to.

So....Z.....Not all of us alcoholics have personally done you wrong bro....some of us could end up to be far more intelligent and reliable than the sober ones. Gotta dislike people on an individual basis.....Not all of us drunkards have earned your wrath....(Give me about 10 minutes...I am sure I can p%ss you off)


wow....

did u even read what I wrote????

MY MOTHER IS AN ALCHOLIC....I AM HER TARGET.....

Sorry I didn't post that I hate mean nasty alcholics instead of funny one who can be fun around...

and I am not a BRO....

I am a woman....I am a sober mom....I am a Marine Mom....

With my son in Iraq fighting this war for our freedom...

ur post to me ..just proves a point..

go away....

zanne46's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:40 PM


Alcholics.....

especially when it's ur own mom...

She is not nice....

I am her target....always have been..

I have been patient..with her...during my time here..here unforunately..

But tonight she said something...actually a few things..but the one sent me over the edge and I started screaming at her..

I'm not a mean person..I am a caretaker, quiet and kind no matter what is going on...

Now I feel horrible..worse than I did all day..

with a migraine that I eventually had to go to bed....

Ok..I vented...I wish I could say I feel better..

but I don't...

:cry: sad brokenheart frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Thank you for listening...:heart:


Hey Leather Neck. Get a grip. Time to reach down and grab some son. You are an adult now and you need to understand that Moms and Dads have problems just like you. I know it hurts but you just have to suck it up and keep moving.

She will be dead one day and you will feel bad if you don’t get the chance to tell her how you feel about her behavior

. You do the best you can do Devil Dog and you will have a clear conscious when she is gone. She is being mean because she is full of pain and misery loves company.

Act like a man and tell her not us.



Yo DUDE...BACK OFF....THATS MY SON U R REFERRING TO IN YOUR POST HERE...

IT'S THE DEVIL DOGS MOM WHO WROTE THIS..

IT'S NOT ABOUT HIM..

IT'S ABOUT ME AND MY MOTHER...

MY MARINE IS IN IRAQ FIGHTING THIS WAR...

DON'T F*ck with a MARINE mom no matter what is happening..

so back off and go away.....:angry: grumble

no photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:42 PM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Fri 10/31/08 06:43 PM
<-----Leaps ontop of the fridge with a knife in her mouth!!!glasses

krupa's photo
Fri 10/31/08 06:43 PM
Wow....

Calm down.....

I see a picture of a soldier hugging a woman....not a Mother hugging a son....how was I to know?

My Biological mother split out when I was 6 months old....I have nothing but respect for a woman who loves her son.

Dude....(and I mean "Dude" in a non-sexual way)...you got a short fuse.

I hope your son returns safe as well as everyone else who serves...I served to.

Now I will go away.