Okay, so there's this guy at school. And we text all the time. I figured it to be a strictly friend thing. Well guess what. I don't think so anymore but I'm not sure. He asks me things like "who would you cuddle with if you had the chance?" and if I ask him who all he likes he simply answers "idk" after waiting a few minutes. I think he likes me but I am unsure. But then he has his times where I wonder if he really has any friends other than me because he asks me for advice on a lot of stuff....Can someone try to help me with this??

I'm thinkin' he likes you...

i concur

He says a lot of stuff too that leads me to think he doesn't. But there's more that makes me think '...hmmm....' haha

He asks for you advice because he values your opinion and obviously respects the choices you make, he is asking you to cuddle with him.....I'd say yeah

Has he played with your hair?

Does he brush up against you...stop texting and look for body language.

He wants to spoon.

remember the boys that pulled the pigtails of the girls they liked? I've had men that liked me and I had no clue b/c they gave mixed signals, I have to be hit upside the head with it...

Do you like him?

Maybe he is too shy to ask you, so maybe you should ask him. Just ask him if he likes you. Texting usually makes things like that easier. The worst thing he could say is "as a friend".

I agree...if you like him tell him. Then ask him if he likes you the same way.

He likes ya but doesn't have the Ba!!s to say so... Lay a big wet kiss on him and either you'll have a new boyfriend or he'll run like he!!

For some that's easier said than done.. If she's shy too....

I asked him if he likes me (really before I thought to check back here for advice) and he said "No but I like talking to you about people I like". Ugh. But then I said 'oh I was just wondering because someone said you like me' then it was like almost a panic of him trying to find out who said it. so I'm like hm why would he act so freaked out that someone would say that and wanting to know specifically who unless maybe he actually did say something to someone. I have no clue. I'm so confused.

I am very much so shy. I'm afraid if he knows that I like him that he will turn tail and run. Though he's the shy type. But I don't want to lose yet another 'friend' for the way I feel.

Well, you asked him and you got a silly answer, it works that way sometimes... Play it cool and wait it out.. He will show you one way or the other soon enough...

Shyness I understand...but unfortunately it can also lead to misunderstandings.

If you loose him over honesty then he was never a friend

Yes it can... She asked him, he played it off...

It's not going to bother me if he really doesn't. I mean besides the fact it gets old hearing about who he likes and what he should do about it when it's girls I know aren't his type (they're my friends and said they don't like him plus they'd cheat on him even if they did date him because he's saving sex and they kinda just can't do the whole no sex thing). I mean I try to help him. And that's when he says the stuff that makes me wonder if he likes me. But then I could just be guessing his whole intentions of asking me what he asks me wrong.

Sounds more and more like he is using you to get to your friends...I think you are answering your own questions.