This morning I find myself Mutual Matched! Only I haven't said 'Yes' to anybody, at least not in recent months. Odd.

On the plus side, she seems like a nice lady.

I think mutual match is a waste of time...no one responds to it...why even bother with it...

Im not sure the online dateing thing is mot a waste of time

And now that I go through my pending MM selections, she's on there. I said 'no' just to see what would happen.... and now's she's gone. Kinda sad.

Curiosity killed the cat.

Ding dong!!!
I've had some mutual matches contact me, but mostly they do not! I don't get it!! And, some, I've written to thinking they were shy. No response from most!! Then, WHY BOTHER!!??

Good to see you Ruth!

Good to see you, too! I guess the counting board kinda died....that's where I used to see you the most.

{Mr; you may be passing by the one!} it works ive meet some good friends, and funny
Guys.just think down the road maybe more?you think? Only in America!.We have (Choice.}10/28/08

I admit IM GUILTY of that too! I have mutual matches that I have NEVER even contacted at all! & I dont know why! I thought I was interested, then I changed my mind, I guess- IM SOOOO CONFUSED!!

She said yes to you, silly. You act as if there is rhyme or reason to it.....

You mean it will add her to my list of accepted mutual matches when she says yes, even if I have not done anything? She was shown on my main account screen as an accepted mutual match. I thought the whole thing was supposed to be 'secret' until we both said 'yes' .... or at least 'maybe'. And while we're talking about it.... why is there a 'maybe'? It appears to do exactly the same thing as a 'yes'. Is it simply to make me feel less committed?

That is an odd situation, tngxl65. I'll have to do some testing and come back to this...

listen, i don't understand this mutual match thing.i have 81 men interested and there is no way i can keep up with all of them.
they look at my profile, then poof they vanish. what does that mean?
what am i supposed to do?

For starters, we recommend that you peruse the FAQ for Mutual Match, Duffy:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/faq

If you find that it's not for you, then you might simply choose to ignore the feature.

I was trying to delete some mutual matches that I have had for months and nothing ever came of it.But there is no button to remove them. how do I do this?

Go to My Account, Click on 'view all mutual matches' then click on the 'X' box in the top right corner of each one you want to delete.

Thank you! I don't know how I missed that .I was doing it wrong.Anyway this time it worked and now I am almost matchless
Thanks again for your help.

Thanks for the post on mutual matches. I was trying to figure it out, too.

So, as a newbie, if I understand this right - mutual matches are mainly computer generated and not necessarily from the "mutual match" listed. And if they are from the "mutual match" listed you have no way of knowing unless you click Yes or Maybe and then get a reponse back?

SOOO mutual match is kind of like an ice breaker?

I see you can't view the next one until you give an answer to the one shown. Not sure if I want play this game. LOL. I will have to do some research and look for some more posts on the subject.