I think our OP is busy taking care of that baby. She hasn't been back since she posted the question

I think our OP is busy taking care of that baby. She hasn't been back since she posted the question

I'm 19 with a 4 1/2 month old and it seems like everyone's criticizing me for trying to start a new relationship. It's like they jump to conclusions and assume that I'm some slut who has babies with guys and doesn't stick with the father and it's so annoying. I'm trying to do what I need to do to be happy and it's like they're trying to sh!t all over it.

PS: Our relationship lasted for over 2 years, so it's not like I just met some random guy and got pregnant. FYI.

What are your thoughts/feelings on the situation? Be honest please.

To consider someone a "slut," for having one child within what was at the time a presumably committed relationship, is absurd. Things happen, relationships end.

There is nothing wrong with you wanting to start a new relationship. It's perfectly natural, and anyone who tries to dissuade you from that is not thinking about your best interests.

Tell them to shut up and leave you alone, and then go do what's right for you.