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Hello Never put your current lover and your ex lover under the same roof if you can help it! Hello! right!!!!!! all of the answers excusing him, and telling me I have not let go, have been men...I guess that tells you something hey now, watch who you're calling a man  oh, sorry 
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Hello Never put your current lover and your ex lover under the same roof if you can help it! Hello! right!!!!!! all of the answers excusing him, and telling me I have not let go, have been men...I guess that tells you something After three years...yea it would seem him stick it to ya one last time. |
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Ah well......if you just politely decline and wish him well it will probably rankle him more than anything. He will realize you've moved on. Don't let him know he's upset you girl!
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What a f_cking moron!!!! Arent you glad hes your ex now!!! LOSER!!!!!!!!!! Hello R, I knew you'll have my back! F_ck that lame...he was lucky to ever have you at all...sorry bout his luck...cause he wont have ya again!!! |
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What a f_cking moron!!!! Arent you glad hes your ex now!!! LOSER!!!!!!!!!! No better words could be said 
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I can't figure out why you even opened his e-mail much less called him. No kids together block his email and phone calls and get on with your life. Don't let him needle you. Evidently he is having some self esteem problems because it is pretty desperate to have to dig your Ex three years after the fact with the current flavor. There is and old saying "there is no punishment worse than silence for a fool". You want to win in this situation ignore his childish goadings.
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I think the more important question is why does it bother you so much? Quit worrying about his motives and figure out YOUR reactions!! It bothers me because we had a very painfull divorce, and he is still looking for ways to hurt me. That only happens if you allow it. No one can hurt you, humiliate you, use you, etc. unless you let them. Make choices that will better you as a person and move forward. Why didn't you just send a card, throw the invitation away, or just ignore him completely? You are allowing him to control your emotions. (Mom) |
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Hello Never put your current lover and your ex lover under the same roof if you can help it! Hello! right!!!!!! all of the answers excusing him, and telling me I have not let go, have been men...I guess that tells you something After three years...yea it would seem him stick it to ya one last time. Thank you! |
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Ah well......if you just politely decline and wish him well it will probably rankle him more than anything. He will realize you've moved on. Don't let him know he's upset you girl! I did thank him politely, and left it alone. Thanks! |
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What a f_cking moron!!!! Arent you glad hes your ex now!!! LOSER!!!!!!!!!! No better words could be said Thanks!!!!!!!!!1111 
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I can't figure out why you even opened his e-mail much less called him. No kids together block his email and phone calls and get on with your life. Don't let him needle you. Evidently he is having some self esteem problems because it is pretty desperate to have to dig your Ex three years after the fact with the current flavor. There is and old saying "there is no punishment worse than silence for a fool". You want to win in this situation ignore his childish goadings. I opened the email because I was surprised to see it, and there it was...Thanks!!
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You guys are great! Thank you for the support! I feel much better!
Thanks ya'll! |
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I think the more important question is why does it bother you so much? Quit worrying about his motives and figure out YOUR reactions!! It bothers me because we had a very painfull divorce, and he is still looking for ways to hurt me. He can't hurt you if you refuse to have contact with him. Check out your states stalking laws and send him a registerd letter with a CC copy to his Navel Commander. All it has to say and should say is "Stop all contact." Sign it with your full legal name and date it. I guarantee you his commander will have a conversation with him about "behavior un-becoming" and he will not have anymore contact with you. |
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Edited by
lcjw
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Tue 10/21/08 08:17 PM
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I think the more important question is why does it bother you so much? Quit worrying about his motives and figure out YOUR reactions!! It bothers me because we had a very painfull divorce, and he is still looking for ways to hurt me. He can't hurt you if you refuse to have contact with him. Check out your states stalking laws and send him a registerd letter with a CC copy to his Navel Commander. All it has to say and should say is "Stop all contact." Sign it with your full legal name and date it. I guarantee you his commander will have a conversation with him about "behavior un-becoming" and he will not have anymore contact with you. I hope it won't get to that. He is too proud to see himself in a mess like that. He is in the NAVY reserve, but he works for NASA; so, I'm sure that he wants to keep the image of the man he and the world think he is. Thanks! |
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I think the more important question is why does it bother you so much? Quit worrying about his motives and figure out YOUR reactions!! It bothers me because we had a very painfull divorce, and he is still looking for ways to hurt me. I'm in agreement with the first comment. I am not in agreement with yours. Essentially, you are selfish. This ceremony is for him, it is not for you. He can invite whoever he wants to, assuming he is a single man. roco p.s. -- i had almost a somewhat similar experience at my brothers wedding. I intensely disliked his ex girlfriend..this lead to me and my brother not speaking for 3 years at one point. He invited her to his wedding. I wasn't going to show up..but i did..because my love for my brother was greater than my hatred for her. Needless to say, she didn't show up. If she truly did want the best for my brother...she would have shown up to his wedding too. Because she didn't , this give me more the reason to think less of her. |
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I think the more important question is why does it bother you so much? Quit worrying about his motives and figure out YOUR reactions!! It bothers me because we had a very painfull divorce, and he is still looking for ways to hurt me. I'm in agreement with the first comment. I am not in agreement with yours. Essentially, you are selfish. This ceremony is for him, it is not for you. He can invite whoever he wants to, assuming he is a single man. roco p.s. -- i had almost a somewhat similar experience at my brothers wedding. I intensely disliked his ex girlfriend..this lead to me and my brother not speaking for 3 years at one point. He invited her to his wedding. I wasn't going to show up..but i did..because my love for my brother was greater than my hatred for her. Needless to say, she didn't show up. If she truly did want the best for my brother...she would have shown up to his wedding too. Because she didn't , this give me more the reason to think less of her. He can have any kind of ceremony, for what I care, and he can invite anyone he wants; however, I don't think you understand the hidden agenda he had. |
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Just try to put this in the PAST!It never happened!I know it is hard.But sounds like he can still get to you.Let the buck stop here.I agree with roberta,F#ck him,I don't think he was being polie either.Just move on the best you can.
J.M.o.  
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Just try to put this in the PAST!It never happened!I know it is hard.But sounds like he can still get to you.Let the buck stop here.I agree with roberta,F#ck him,I don't think he was being polie either.Just move on the best you can. J.M.o. Thanks! I am! |
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