I want to marry a military man...

Girl after the "HELL" I went through with one I dont even want to see them..... call me we will talk

Might I ask why?

How about one that just dresses up like one?

Why a military man?

I just really would like to find a man like that.Iam not sure if its the right thing but I really enjoy them.Whats so bad about them.?Iam curious????

like i said we need to talk

What is so wrong with them I jsut thought it was a good life.some people seem so happy.

yes and some people live happy lives with herpes but it doesnt mean i want too.... Not all of them are what they say...Be very careful....They like games...I know from experience

honey, military men come with nothing but drama, lies, deception, na a major headache.. If you want to marry a military man them just stay single and live alone.. they are gone all the time and most of them you cant trust! Im a Navy girl and I work with the guys all day. I see the stuff they put their wives through. plus I have a bunch of friends in all branches of the service.. its not worth it.. Find someone who you truly love and that loves, and if that happens to be someone in the service than ok.. but dont base it on that. Live a happy life not a miserable one because your husband is gone all the time and more than likely cheating with anything he gets his hand on.. Very few military men are loyal. I see it everyday and its disqusting!!! I wont get involved with one if i can help it.. but good luck to you!

Okay so you say.But what about them ones see that always seem happy and got it made liek a fat rat.They have families,and worry free life.It all cant be that bad..I wonder god do i wonder.

my boyfriend is military and in fact he's in Iraq as i type this. it's hell on our relationship because he is gone and it's no picnic when he dont call for weeks on end up to a couple of months. it takes a strong person to be in a relationship with a military man. i have family in the military and thats just hell on their families too.

..there are many different levels of the military...officers to the rank and file...there are many different compensation levels..there are many different family dynamics..there are many different parter to partner relationships..i think it is very unfair to categorize all military people in being a certain way...for good or for bad..just as it is unfair to categorize anyone affiliated in any certain industry..be it private/public, or otherwise...I am not in the military and never have been..but I think they should be given the same opportunity..date wise..as a civilian..

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Hey. I'm a military man and I'm one of the nicest and honest guys you will ever find. It sounds like some of these ladies just received the bad end of the stick. my brother is in the military and he has the best relationship I have seen, So its not the military its the guy your with. You can't blame it on the military. P.S. I just join the military:)

I will say this..... the loser I dated who was in the Military said he was the nicest and most honest guy as well and what do you know he is the sorriest excuse for a man, let alone a military man...He is a COWARD>>>>>

I think the ones and dont get me wrong not all but some of them that are deployed use that as a crutch to lure women and then deceive them...They make women think they are the only ones when in fact you are not...you are but a group of women being played.....

the guys i dated in the military were some of the most sweetest guys i've ever met. they're dedicated to what they do or have done. so like it was posted its not the military it's the man.

Okay well there has to be at least one good military man out there for me....

I spent 14 yrs in the army......military life doesnt lead to divorce....but it sure helps!!!!
if you like being alone alot.....go for it!!!
if your just lookin for the life style.....enlist yourself.

but why are you so hell bent on a military guy... I am sure there has got to be a decent guy other then Military... I am not saying they are bad just there is alot that comes with being with a Military Man.........

Well. It sounds like adirtygirl still has some issues with that military hit she was wit and don't get me wrong there are some horrible military guys out there, but there are also a lot of great guys out there. You just have to pick them carefully!