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| Topic: Finding things to talk about: Why is it so hard?? | |
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People love to share stories about themselves...
We are our best authoritarians of us... Ask questions, that you are genuinely curious to know... then be sure to say thankyou when you get a response, and show genuine interest in them... show that you listened. A good conversationalist is usually the one who says the least... they are usually a good listener that no one noticed. |
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Edited by
GOALLTHEWAY
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Sat 10/25/08 02:35 PM
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Being shy has nothing to do with not having anything to talk about. Maybe you should get out of the house and gain some confidence in yourself. Maybe you need to get out of the house and get some sun on that body Dracula. I’ve Seen darker pigment on Albino rats. Why dont you be nice to the kid? He's shy, not a shut in or at least he doesn’t look like one. |
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I've been in contact with this girl from on here, and I told her already that I'm shy and at time i just don't know what to talk about. Apparently she said it's not working for her or for me, but she seems really cool. Why is it so hard to find something to talk about? Any suggestions on how to keep a conversation going? Hey Dude it’s easy to talk to girls. All you have to do is steer the conversation to what they like. WOMEN LOVE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES. That’s all you have to remember. If she says she like German Sheppard’s you ask her why. She says she had one named Alex growing up and he was so great and so smart and BLAAA BLAAA BLAAA . EASY!!!!!!! |
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That you were having a hard time talking to someone is probably your instinct telling you this is not the person to spend your time with. People who make talking to them feel like pulling teeth usually means they are not really listening to you or they are focused on themselves so maybe you dodged a bullet.
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I've been in contact with this girl from on here, and I told her already that I'm shy and at time i just don't know what to talk about. Apparently she said it's not working for her or for me, but she seems really cool. Why is it so hard to find something to talk about? Any suggestions on how to keep a conversation going? If you're interested in her, it shouldn't be that hard to find things to talk about. It probably wouldn't work for me either if the person I was talking to could never come up with anything to talk about. |
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I've been in contact with this girl from on here, and I told her already that I'm shy and at time i just don't know what to talk about. Apparently she said it's not working for her or for me, but she seems really cool. Why is it so hard to find something to talk about? Any suggestions on how to keep a conversation going? Hey Dude it’s easy to talk to girls. All you have to do is steer the conversation to what they like. WOMEN LOVE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES. That’s all you have to remember. If she says she like German Sheppard’s you ask her why. She says she had one named Alex growing up and he was so great and so smart and BLAAA BLAAA BLAAA . EASY!!!!!!! Not all women are egotistical. Just so you know. 
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I think the MAIN reason it's so hard to talk is,YOU WANT TO MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION.Face it your SCARED.You don't want to say the WRONG thing,so you stumble and stammer,and eventually F... things up.BE POSITIVE.You have as much to give as they do.You are not a begger.All you want to do is give them a general description of who you are.Be funny,spontanious,and flirt only when you feel invited.Well that's kinda 70/30,meaning 30% of the women you talk to WANT you to flirt(and flirt hard....Yeah!!)It's a coin flip who your talking to.My BAD.Good Luck!!!!!!Thanks ....Frank
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Edited by
LovinTheCity
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Sat 11/08/08 05:00 PM
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hahaha, omg that mentioning he has a big penis is halarious! the funny thing is, I'd probably get a kick out of that (long as I knew the guy was just trying to be funny and start up convo)
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