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Topic: Why do people make a commitment...
Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:41 PM



From my experience, I've found that I don't honor my commitments when the other party has failed at theirs first. Maybe look in the mirror and ask yourself what you did wrong????
I honored mine, that I know. Something just feels lost there in our relationship and that is communication. If I'm trying to communicate and she is not, maybe there is more to her side of fault.


There's fault to this? There is fault to how someone feels? There is fault placed to someone who doesn't want to live the rest of their lives with you and has the decency of telling you this BEFORE you get married?

Hmmmm curious.


That's just it. She hasn't told me. She ain't even telling me anything right now. I believe starting a commitment means you have responsibility you should fulfill. One of those is being honest and communicating with the one you started the commitment with, whether you want to be with them or not. I don't feel anyone should allow someone to pine away with worry either way. When in an engagement, both should talk everything out even if there is bound to be a break up.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:50 PM
How long have you known her?

How many times have you met her in real life?

How long after you met in real life did she ask you to marry her?

I just want to get a good idea of the situation, maybe I was too hasty in my reply.

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:58 PM

How long have you known her?

3months.

How many times have you met her in real life?

Once for a week's visit.

How long after you met in real life did she ask you to marry her?

She asked before we met and I proposed during the week she was here and she said yes with a smile on her face.

She still says she loves me and wants to be together, but the communication isn't there and I don't understand that. I know that may make people feel different than I, but I don't understand why someone that says they love you so much, but finds it hard to talk, truly loves you like they are saying.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:58 PM
If you having trouble communicating this early in the relationship you'd better think real hard before marrying.Nice to see ya Engravenflowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 06:59 PM


How long have you known her?

3months.

How many times have you met her in real life?

Once for a week's visit.

How long after you met in real life did she ask you to marry her?

She asked before we met and I proposed during the week she was here and she said yes with a smile on her face.

She still says she loves me and wants to be together, but the communication isn't there and I don't understand that. I know that may make people feel different than I, but I don't understand why someone that says they love you so much, but finds it hard to talk, truly loves you like they are saying.


Please reread your answers to find the big picture... It's in there for you....

Lily0923's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:00 PM


How long have you known her?

3months.

How many times have you met her in real life?

Once for a week's visit.

How long after you met in real life did she ask you to marry her?

She asked before we met and I proposed during the week she was here and she said yes with a smile on her face.

She still says she loves me and wants to be together, but the communication isn't there and I don't understand that. I know that may make people feel different than I, but I don't understand why someone that says they love you so much, but finds it hard to talk, truly loves you like they are saying.


Please reread your answers to find the big picture... It's in there for you....

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:01 PM

If you having trouble communicating this early in the relationship you'd better think real hard before marrying.Nice to see ya Engravenflowerforyou
Believe me I am thinking! Lol, hey Tina!:thumbsup:

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:03 PM



How long have you known her?

3months.

How many times have you met her in real life?

Once for a week's visit.

How long after you met in real life did she ask you to marry her?

She asked before we met and I proposed during the week she was here and she said yes with a smile on her face.

She still says she loves me and wants to be together, but the communication isn't there and I don't understand that. I know that may make people feel different than I, but I don't understand why someone that says they love you so much, but finds it hard to talk, truly loves you like they are saying.


Please reread your answers to find the big picture... It's in there for you....
Maybe, I should call it quits. Maybe, she doesn't love me like she says she does.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:06 PM
sometimes we have to come to the conclusion that a person just isn't into us the way we'd like them to beflowerforyou

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:07 PM

sometimes we have to come to the conclusion that a person just isn't into us the way we'd like them to beflowerforyou
Good Answer!:thumbsup:

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:07 PM

sometimes we have to come to the conclusion that a person just isn't into us the way we'd like them to beflowerforyou
Good Answer!:thumbsup:

itsmetina's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:10 PM
You are a wonderful person Engraven give yourself time and a woman will come along that deserves youflowerforyou

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:11 PM

You are a wonderful person Engraven give yourself time and a woman will come along that deserves youflowerforyou
Thank you Sweetstuff!winking

ABS929cbrrr's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:18 PM
just do what you feel is right...think about everything long and hard. thinking is free and everything will work out, althought i even question why i say that, guess i just got hope.

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 10/19/08 07:20 PM

just do what you feel is right...think about everything long and hard. thinking is free and everything will work out, althought i even question why i say that, guess i just got hope.
Thank you man!:thumbsup:

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