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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.
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wash yer butt & have fun
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you know...i could swear you posted this exact thread awhile back......
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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me. I "get it" completely! First date with a guy recently...had the "I'm not looking for a serious relationship" discussion and then the chemistry started in. I've got a serious crush...it's ridiculous, actually, but can't be helped. I guess I can say I've moved from "no way" to "open to the possiblity" but it still scares the crud outta me on many levels. I've decided to just enjoy the ride and whatever happens is okay...might try to get yourself in that mid-frame in order to enjoy your date :) |
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you know...i could swear you posted this exact thread awhile back...... uhmmmmm that would not be me darlin.....i havent dated in forever! |
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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me. |
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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me. I "get it" completely! First date with a guy recently...had the "I'm not looking for a serious relationship" discussion and then the chemistry started in. I've got a serious crush...it's ridiculous, actually, but can't be helped. I guess I can say I've moved from "no way" to "open to the possiblity" but it still scares the crud outta me on many levels. I've decided to just enjoy the ride and whatever happens is okay...might try to get yourself in that mid-frame in order to enjoy your date :) yeah the last "relationship" i was in was a doosy and i just swore off the whole dating thing....makes me nervous to even delve back into it....yikes! |
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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me. ((((deb)))) how are ya? |
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wash yer butt & have fun do i have to? |
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Edited by
madamx7316
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Thu 10/16/08 10:02 PM
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wash yer butt & have fun eeeekkkk...double post |
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Have a great time {{{{Kitt}}}}
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a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me. ((((deb)))) how are ya? Happy for you. Hoping he treats you well. You never know how it will turn out. |
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wash yer butt & have fun do i have to? not if you're goin out with me sugar |
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wash yer butt & have fun do i have to? not if you're goin out with me sugar |
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And BTW...this is a DATE and not like you are running off to get married! Try to keep that in mind and just relax and have a good time...
Perspective...it's all about keeping things in the right frame of mind :) |
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((((eileen)))) ty darlin
im sure he will deb...he is super nice...its me im worried about (which we know why haha) |
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And BTW...this is a DATE and not like you are running off to get married! Try to keep that in mind and just relax and have a good time... Perspective...it's all about keeping things in the right frame of mind :) true...but when it comes to men, i can be a bitter, frigid...you know what haha |
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Edited by
littleredhen
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Thu 10/16/08 10:17 PM
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Have fun picking out your clothes, doing your hair & make up & just being girly. Then relax, have fun & get to know the guy. No expectations, just enjoy.
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true...but when it comes to men, i can be a bitter, frigid...you know what haha That sounds like somebody else's BS still impacting your self-perception. I believed a lot of crap about myself and my ability to interact with men based on my ex's "conditioning" about what a lousy wife/woman/lover I was but guess what...I found out he was W-R-O-N-G and boy, is that sweet! |
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Good luck and have a blast!!
I'm meeting a person[not from this site]next week too |
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