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Topic: ok...so I have a date....
madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:54 PM
a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:56 PM
wash yer butt & have fun drinker

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:56 PM
you know...i could swear you posted this exact thread awhile back......

galendgirl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:57 PM

a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.


I "get it" completely! First date with a guy recently...had the "I'm not looking for a serious relationship" discussion and then the chemistry started in. I've got a serious crush...it's ridiculous, actually, but can't be helped. I guess I can say I've moved from "no way" to "open to the possiblity" but it still scares the crud outta me on many levels. I've decided to just enjoy the ride and whatever happens is okay...might try to get yourself in that mid-frame in order to enjoy your date :)

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:58 PM

you know...i could swear you posted this exact thread awhile back......


uhmmmmm that would not be me darlin.....i havent dated in forever!

Winx's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:58 PM

a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.



:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:59 PM


a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.


I "get it" completely! First date with a guy recently...had the "I'm not looking for a serious relationship" discussion and then the chemistry started in. I've got a serious crush...it's ridiculous, actually, but can't be helped. I guess I can say I've moved from "no way" to "open to the possiblity" but it still scares the crud outta me on many levels. I've decided to just enjoy the ride and whatever happens is okay...might try to get yourself in that mid-frame in order to enjoy your date :)


yeah the last "relationship" i was in was a doosy and i just swore off the whole dating thing....makes me nervous to even delve back into it....yikes!

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:00 PM


a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.



:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



((((deb)))) how are ya?

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:01 PM

wash yer butt & have fun drinker


do i have to? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:01 PM
Edited by madamx7316 on Thu 10/16/08 10:02 PM

wash yer butt & have fun drinker


eeeekkkk...double post

eileena9's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:02 PM
Have a great time {{{{Kitt}}}}flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:04 PM



a week from Saturday. Seems to be a great guy (not from this site). I am not sure what to do, I honestly wasnt "in the market" for dating again, but he seems really nice and people here (at home) are pushing me to do this, thinking it would be good for me.....im nervous, not sure about this, not because of him....because of me.



:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



((((deb)))) how are ya?


Happy for you.happy Hoping he treats you well.flowers

You never know how it will turn out.bigsmile

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:04 PM


wash yer butt & have fun drinker


do i have to? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


not if you're goin out with me sugar devil smokin

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:05 PM



wash yer butt & have fun drinker


do i have to? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


not if you're goin out with me sugar devil smokin


bigsmile

galendgirl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:05 PM
And BTW...this is a DATE and not like you are running off to get married! Try to keep that in mind and just relax and have a good time...
Perspective...it's all about keeping things in the right frame of mind :)

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:06 PM
((((eileen)))) ty darlin

im sure he will deb...he is super nice...its me im worried about (which we know why haha)

madamx7316's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:07 PM

And BTW...this is a DATE and not like you are running off to get married! Try to keep that in mind and just relax and have a good time...
Perspective...it's all about keeping things in the right frame of mind :)


true...but when it comes to men, i can be a bitter, frigid...you know what haha

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Thu 10/16/08 10:15 PM
Edited by littleredhen on Thu 10/16/08 10:17 PM
Have fun picking out your clothes, doing your hair & make up & just being girly. Then relax, have fun & get to know the guy. No expectations, just enjoy.

galendgirl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:20 PM


true...but when it comes to men, i can be a bitter, frigid...you know what haha


That sounds like somebody else's BS still impacting your self-perception. I believed a lot of crap about myself and my ability to interact with men based on my ex's "conditioning" about what a lousy wife/woman/lover I was but guess what...I found out he was W-R-O-N-G and boy, is that sweet!

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:31 PM
Good luck and have a blast!!bigsmile

I'm meeting a person[not from this site]next week tooscared

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