Topic: :: takes big breath :: ok im ready to move on
matthew1183's photo
Mon 10/13/08 08:46 AM
Hello from the newbie,
I'd just thought I'd get some feed back from others. I recently or what I THINK is recent,(alittle over a month) got over a 4 year relationship. I am over the relationship now but am starting to question "is it too soon to look for another"? I dont think its to soon but would love some input. Thanks. Oh yea! Take a look at my new profile!! ;)

bad_girl's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:04 AM
waving Hi Matthew, and doll, it is not too soon if it feels right to you

Welcome and have a great time

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:12 AM
Don't look. Just live your life and something will come along. You're only 25. You have plenty of time. flowerforyou

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Mon 10/13/08 09:22 AM
6 weeks is a long time......I think you should buy some cheap hookers!bigsmile

DragonFlyTat's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:38 AM
Speaking from my point of view, I lost my husband of 20 years recently. Nobody knows how lonely you feel but yourself. I caught all kinds of crap because I started dating. However, it is my life and I will live it as I please. Don't let others set a time line for you. Forge ahead.

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Mon 10/13/08 09:55 AM
Every situation is different. If you feel you can move ahead without carrying resentment and unresolved anger from the last relationship into the next one, you're well on your way. The trick is not to rush and not to hold back too much either. It's a fine line, but it helps if you trust your instincts and keep an eye open for the proverbial red flags. I wish you luck.



feralcatlady's photo
Mon 10/13/08 10:12 AM
I say enjoy, get to know people and let natures take it's course. I would hate to say oh yea jump back in when you were not ready because the only one that would suffer would be the new one....So I say take your time, hang out get to know people and have fun with it.