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Topic: Guy's,
shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:06 AM
I still go out with my ex bf. Question is this. He never pick's me up anymore. He never leave's with me anymore either. Say's he has to pay the bill. We still talk about having a relationship but, it's not realy going on. Why does he not have me go with him or, leave with me anynore??????????

RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548	Sat 10/11/08 09:07 AM
because... move on

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/11/08 09:07 AM
he just has you meet him places??

GeniuSxBoY Joined Sun 06/15/08 Posts: 8190	Sat 10/11/08 09:08 AM
I'm afraid you captured the sentiment in the first sentence. "Ex bf"

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:08 AM
he just has you meet him places?? Yes,it's the same place. Where we first met.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/11/08 09:09 AM
he just has you meet him places?? Yes,it's the same place. Where we first met. then he's hiding something. Maybe he's seeing someone else... Rememeber, he's an EX for a reason.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:10 AM
he just has you meet him places?? Yes,it's the same place. Where we first met. then he's hiding something. Maybe he's seeing someone else... Rememeber, he's an EX for a reason. I think he doesn't want it to look like we're "together".

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 10/11/08 09:10 AM
he just has you meet him places?? Yes,it's the same place. Where we first met. Is it a hotel Shoes?

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:11 AM
he just has you meet him places?? Yes,it's the same place. Where we first met. Is it a hotel Shoes? Nope.Just a bar.

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 10/11/08 09:11 AM
Dump his sorry butt ... after asking him to explain, just to cover the bases

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sat 10/11/08 09:13 AM
In my humble opinion, he hangs on tightly to what you forst had, thus the same place as when you first met. But he may desire something new but is afraid to let go of the past. If he is not picking you up or leaving with you, he is telling everyone, including you, that he is not committed to you. I would lat him know how you feel and move on. If it is meant to be for the two of you, he will act and try to capture your love once again.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:15 AM
In my humble opinion, he hangs on tightly to what you forst had, thus the same place as when you first met. But he may desire something new but is afraid to let go of the past. If he is not picking you up or leaving with you, he is telling everyone, including you, that he is not committed to you. I would lat him know how you feel and move on. If it is meant to be for the two of you, he will act and try to capture your love once again. You make alot of sense. Thank you Woody.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sat 10/11/08 09:16 AM
Dump em

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/11/08 09:17 AM
In my opinion... quit meeting him and going to him when he calls. If you really mean anything to him, you would be welcome in his car at least. Go to the store together. A nice place to eat. Not just meet me at a bar and I'll pay for the drinks.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Sat 10/11/08 09:17 AM
why buy the cow????

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sat 10/11/08 09:17 AM
In my humble opinion, he hangs on tightly to what you forst had, thus the same place as when you first met. But he may desire something new but is afraid to let go of the past. If he is not picking you up or leaving with you, he is telling everyone, including you, that he is not committed to you. I would lat him know how you feel and move on. If it is meant to be for the two of you, he will act and try to capture your love once again. You make alot of sense. Thank you Woody. Anytime, shoes!!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 10/11/08 09:18 AM
In my humble opinion, he hangs on tightly to what you forst had, thus the same place as when you first met. But he may desire something new but is afraid to let go of the past. If he is not picking you up or leaving with you, he is telling everyone, including you, that he is not committed to you. I would lat him know how you feel and move on. If it is meant to be for the two of you, he will act and try to capture your love once again. You make alot of sense. Thank you Woody. In so far as my love goes,he know's he got it. Perhap's I made the mistake of telling this.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 10/11/08 09:22 AM
In my humble opinion, he hangs on tightly to what you forst had, thus the same place as when you first met. But he may desire something new but is afraid to let go of the past. If he is not picking you up or leaving with you, he is telling everyone, including you, that he is not committed to you. I would lat him know how you feel and move on. If it is meant to be for the two of you, he will act and try to capture your love once again. or could it be he won't run into anyone else at this bar??? I'm sorry your explaination sounds nice and sweet and all... but it seems more to me like he's just dragging her a long because he has no idea what he wants. And he has her meet him there so that no one else sees them together. I hate to say it Shoes... but you need to make him treat you better than he is. And if he won't, move on. I know, it's easier said than done tho.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Sat 10/11/08 09:23 AM
if he was really into you, he would be doing all he can to make you happy, sounds like he's not all that into you.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Sat 10/11/08 09:27 AM
it seems deep down inside you know the answer...you just want someone to talk you outta believing what you already know is true...you sooooo deserve to be happy...time to move on..