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Topic: How the hell do you cope?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 10/09/08 10:14 PM
Your partner has left you for a girl half your age, you found out he has been seeing her for 3 of the 6 yrs you were together, and she is now pregnant and they have moved to live abroad.There is no contact.How the hell do you cope?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 10/09/08 10:18 PM
Your partner has left you for a girl half your age, you found out he has been seeing her for 3 of the 6 yrs you were together, and she is now pregnant and they have moved to live abroad.There is no contact.How the hell do you cope? Mirror, do you need someone to talk to about your boyfriend leaving? No, in all honesty I really wouldn't care...would figure it 'better off' and move on. Of course I'm heartless and soulless so it could be different for the lot of you.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 10/09/08 10:19 PM
You just do...and keep in mind that Karma soon catches up...and that there is someone better for you

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 10/09/08 10:19 PM
not sure mirror, if my girl left me for a girl half my age i`d probably ask if i could video tape one of their passionate nights...lol

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Thu 10/09/08 10:22 PM
In reality he did you a favor after all who would want to share their life with someone who couldnt be trusted..

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 10/09/08 10:22 PM
are you writing another book

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Thu 10/09/08 10:22 PM
You cry and get f-en mad as hell, possibly tear up anything he gave you and cry somemore then you go through a man hating stage where you think they are all that way, this is not the time to date at all then you finally see light at the end of the tunnel and can actually see a guy might be different and besides by now you are pretty horny too so you start dating lightly and try to keep things as friends so you do not recreate what you just got out of. Maybe a year or two down the road you should be doing better and be able to get down to some real dating.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 10/09/08 10:26 PM
I'd dance

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 10/09/08 10:28 PM
are you writing another book Research material for a term paper in Sociology.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 10/09/08 10:30 PM
are you writing another book well i can tell you this while my ex hubby and i were still married we were separated and he met someone and they were together for awhile and they had a child together, while he was with her and we wernt even divorced yet he cheated on his gf with someone else and they got married about 2yrs after there child was born... i tried to tell his 2nd wife all about him and of course she didnt listen. she learning the hard way.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 10/09/08 10:32 PM
You cry and get f-en mad as hell, possibly tear up anything he gave you and cry somemore then you go through a man hating stage where you think they are all that way, this is not the time to date at all then you finally see light at the end of the tunnel and can actually see a guy might be different and besides by now you are pretty horny too so you start dating lightly and try to keep things as friends so you do not recreate what you just got out of. Maybe a year or two down the road you should be doing better and be able to get down to some real dating. Good answer. I totally agree.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 10/09/08 10:41 PM
are you writing another book Research material for a term paper in Sociology. Cool. What are you going to use for your references?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 10/09/08 10:53 PM
are you writing another book Research material for a term paper in Sociology. Cool. What are you going to use for your references? I can use the site for a reference. Actually I think doing a study on people like that without telling them might be unethical. So perhaps its just for fun.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 10/09/08 10:57 PM
can i call my thread research? forget i asked that...lol

GeniuSxBoY Joined Sun 06/15/08 Posts: 8190	Thu 10/09/08 10:58 PM
Thank god that you're not pregnant simultaneously

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 10/09/08 11:01 PM
I had rolls of toilet paper made with her image on each sheet. Ahhhh it made me feel much better. Especially when I mailed the used sheets to her.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 10/09/08 11:02 PM
Bwa ha ha ha ha!!!

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 10/09/08 11:03 PM
I had rolls of toilet paper made with her image on each sheet. Ahhhh it made me feel much better. Especially when I mailed the used sheets to her. thats a real "crapy" thing to do...lol

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 10/09/08 11:05 PM
are you writing another book Research material for a term paper in Sociology. Cool. What are you going to use for your references? I can use the site for a reference. Actually I think doing a study on people like that without telling them might be unethical. So perhaps its just for fun. You mischievous little monkey, you.

pyrochik Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 111	Fri 10/10/08 03:52 AM
You cry and get f-en mad as hell, possibly tear up anything he gave you and cry somemore then you go through a man hating stage where you think they are all that way, this is not the time to date at all then you finally see light at the end of the tunnel and can actually see a guy might be different and besides by now you are pretty horny too so you start dating lightly and try to keep things as friends so you do not recreate what you just got out of. Maybe a year or two down the road you should be doing better and be able to get down to some real dating. Good grief, were you here watching? This is almost exactly how it went for me, with a little more horror thrown in. Just now trying to obtain a life again...5 yrs. later.