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HOW CAN YOU TELL WHO IS BEING FOR REAL OR NOT FOR REAL.
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You just have to take your chances really- take your time and talk talk talk- get to know them and have no expectations.
Not everyone is fake- its just weeding through the garbage to find the real ones takes time and patience. |
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You can't know for sure, just have to take a shot and hope for the best. My advice, don't invest too much emotionally until you've actually met and spent time with them in person.
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HOW CAN YOU TELL WHO IS BEING FOR REAL OR NOT FOR REAL. I don't think you can ever truly know for sure, without meeting them in person -- and maybe not even then. For me -- I have to go with what I know -- the longer I interact with people, the more I get to know them -- and I think, in many cases, real people with real personalities come out and reveal themselves, to some extent, even when it's only through words on a screen. There are people I've known on this site for over a year and a half, and I feel pretty confident that they are who they say they are. And, sure, I could be wrong. It happens. But I think time carries a lot of answers.... |
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How do you tell in "real life"?
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How do you tell in "real life"? |
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When you find out, let me know, because I apparently have no idea myself
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HOW CAN YOU TELL WHO IS BEING FOR REAL OR NOT FOR REAL. don't trust anyone .. be sure to run background checks on every person you get an email from .. be cynical and distrusting .. it'll pay off. J/K Just remember it's the internet hon. Take it lightly .. |
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You can start by not trusting people until they have shown they can be trusted, and have proved somewhat that they are who and what they say they are. Dont take anything anyone says for granted, and question anything that doesnt quite sound right, and demand answer to these questions without settling for bullsh1t.
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You can start by not trusting people until they have shown they can be trusted, and have proved somewhat that they are who and what they say they are. Dont take anything anyone says for granted, and question anything that doesnt quite sound right, and demand answer to these questions without settling for bullsh1t. ^^ doesn't trust him |
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Don't believe any of it and listen to you gut.
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Don't believe any of it and listen to you gut. We arent talking about the bible, Deb. |
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You can start by not trusting people until they have shown they can be trusted, and have proved somewhat that they are who and what they say they are. Dont take anything anyone says for granted, and question anything that doesnt quite sound right, and demand answer to these questions without settling for bullsh1t. ^^ doesn't trust him Ohh fk off! lol! |
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Don't believe any of it and listen to you gut. We arent talking about the bible, Deb. Dan if you keep those fingers up your nose I am afraid it's killing brain cells.....because you are starting to become dellusional... |
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Damn strange being called that by you! lol!
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Edited by
feralcatlady
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Thu 10/09/08 03:15 PM
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Damn strange being called that by you! lol! well it's the truth....and look no more finger in the nose pic.......so whatever I do it must work....gigglesnort. And even though the brain cells that have been lost won't ever come back.....your going to be ok. |
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