Topic: mingle couple of the year goes to..........
eileena9's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:04 PM
:tongue: :tongue: Bergeialaugh laugh laugh

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:06 PM

well I've met 2 former husbands on here and I really think number 3 will be a winner!!!


Are these YOUR former husbands or someone else's?

duckiegiggles's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:09 PM

Duckie....you lookin a little green around the gills......

**puts up umbrella over my head in case Duckie can't hold it in anymore.....**


heh
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i actually think its gooshy cute you two sign each others names when you post sometimes

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:12 PM
I dont know if the OP is referring to anyone specific or not.

But in my time online i have seen god knows how many couples declaring love for eachother, only for 5 minutes later to find out that they now hate eachother because one of them did something in that time to change everything.

Some people dont even get to the stage of being in an online romance(which is below REAL love), there is a step before that i call 'forum love'. These are ususally the most gut wrenching of couples.

duckiegiggles's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:14 PM

I dont know if the OP is referring to anyone specific or not.

But in my time online i have seen god knows how many couples declaring love for eachother, only for 5 minutes later to find out that they now hate eachother because one of them did something in that time to change everything.

Some people dont even get to the stage of being in an online romance(which is below REAL love), there is a step before that i call 'forum love'. These are ususally the most gut wrenching of couples.


its funny how they fall out of love when they meet

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:16 PM


I dont know if the OP is referring to anyone specific or not.

But in my time online i have seen god knows how many couples declaring love for eachother, only for 5 minutes later to find out that they now hate eachother because one of them did something in that time to change everything.

Some people dont even get to the stage of being in an online romance(which is below REAL love), there is a step before that i call 'forum love'. These are ususally the most gut wrenching of couples.


its funny how they fall out of love when they meet


Wow! someone with an even sicker sense of humour than mine! lol!

tngxl65's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:20 PM


I dont know if the OP is referring to anyone specific or not.

But in my time online i have seen god knows how many couples declaring love for eachother, only for 5 minutes later to find out that they now hate eachother because one of them did something in that time to change everything.

Some people dont even get to the stage of being in an online romance(which is below REAL love), there is a step before that i call 'forum love'. These are ususally the most gut wrenching of couples.


its funny how they fall out of love when they meet


Meeting in real life is always a bit of a shock. You can develop feelings from a distance, but you never really know how you're going to react when you meet someone. There's much that you're not getting over a computer or phone. And these things can shock you right out of 'love'.

duckiegiggles's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:20 PM
Edited by duckiegiggles on Wed 10/08/08 08:22 PM
i dont think they are ever "in love" untill they actually meet
infatuated , in lust or addicted to them yes but not "in love"

or they are "in love"
with who they think that person is or who they want them to be

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:24 PM
You can fall in love online, but its just luck as to whether your perceived online admiration turns into real love after you meet.

I think the fact that a lot of couples arent totally honest and true to themselves at the online stage is why many dont work out. If both people really do show their true selfs before the meeting takes place, the success rate would be higher.

And if the OP is referring about anyone specific, i certianly am not.


bergeia's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:26 PM
word. if you lie it goes bad,lol. be honest, or dont bother.

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:28 PM
I was seeing a guy I met on here for around 5 months. Thank goodness I didn't waste any more time than I did.:banana: yawn

bergeia's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:29 PM
lol he osunds like he was a winner. you gotta be willing ot go meet and either forgive some little thing shtey either didnt mention or were too embarassed to mention or say F it cut your losses and go home and try again. cause i will NOT try to pick women up in bars anymore,lol.

tngxl65's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:30 PM

word. if you lie it goes bad,lol. be honest, or dont bother.


Exactly. See, I can tell berg and I would never work out because I can't date anyone that uses 'word' as a complete sentence. :wink: :wink: laugh laugh

Just kidding berg. I'm sure there's plenty of other reasons.

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:31 PM
Edited by Dan99 on Wed 10/08/08 08:32 PM

word. if you lie it goes bad,lol. be honest, or dont bother.


Its not all about not lying as such, although that is of course important. But more to do with a general honesty to oneself. As in, be yourself, dont hide behind the screen and the distance.

But that doesnt explain it either, i cant find the words.

bergeia's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:32 PM


word. if you lie it goes bad,lol. be honest, or dont bother.


Exactly. See, I can tell berg and I would never work out because I can't date anyone that uses 'word' as a complete sentence. :wink: :wink: laugh laugh

Just kidding berg. I'm sure there's plenty of other reasons.



lol no worries i only use it as a joke. a jab at ghetto rappers of sorts,lol. youre not really my type anyhow,lol.


yeah youre right dan you CANT lie to you about you. im chubby i like videogames and i like war. lol. find em a girl who can deal with all THAT. lol

justme659's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:34 PM



I think the fact that a lot of couples arent totally honest and true to themselves at the online stage is why many dont work out. If both people really do show their true selfs before the meeting takes place, the success rate would be higher.





For a person with his fingers up his nose you sure got it right. :thumbsup:

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:36 PM
I think i am meaning things like being truthful to oneself that the person you are talking to is the right kind of person for you.

And other stuff, i still cant explain it.

Im not talking about the things you definately should be truthful about, like how you look, what you do for a living etc

tngxl65's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:37 PM




I think the fact that a lot of couples arent totally honest and true to themselves at the online stage is why many dont work out. If both people really do show their true selfs before the meeting takes place, the success rate would be higher.





For a person with his fingers up his nose you sure got it right. :thumbsup:


He's massaging the brain. Once in while he touches that spot that makes him say something intelligent. It's rare though :wink: :wink:

Dan99's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:37 PM




I think the fact that a lot of couples arent totally honest and true to themselves at the online stage is why many dont work out. If both people really do show their true selfs before the meeting takes place, the success rate would be higher.





For a person with his fingers up his nose you sure got it right. :thumbsup:


I got acid on my fingers and it helps to expand my mind! lol

bergeia's photo
Wed 10/08/08 08:38 PM

I think i am meaning things like being truthful to oneself that the person you are talking to is the right kind of person for you.

And other stuff, i still cant explain it.

Im not talking about the things you definately should be truthful about, like how you look, what you do for a living etc



lmfao. you NEVEr know if the persons right though, escpecially not while youre online, you might get a feeling but you can never be sure or unsure. its a gamble which is why this doesnt work too often, no one wants to travel outside 50 miles for love, lol.