Topic: is it worth it...
7z3r05's photo
Fri 10/03/08 11:55 PM
i met a super cool girl here but she lives in cali. i live in ohio and want to know what i should do. should i visit cali and see her or am i better off just olaying my cards with someone closer. i want to meet her and all but what are the odds of anything coming of it? please critique.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Fri 10/03/08 11:58 PM
I'd say try at least one visit in real life, why always have the wondering "What If"

It would help decide if something is worth pursuing or at least settle whether or not she was "the one"

After all there are several couples on here that it worked out for you could be one of lucky ones as well!!

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itsmetina's photo
Sat 10/04/08 12:01 AM
yep go visit and see if you connect

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/04/08 12:05 AM

yep go visit and see if you connect
miss tina you still up tooflowerforyou

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Sat 10/04/08 12:06 AM

i met a super cool girl here but she lives in cali. i live in ohio and want to know what i should do. should i visit cali and see her or am i better off just olaying my cards with someone closer. i want to meet her and all but what are the odds of anything coming of it? please critique.


If you're asking me then you're already screwed. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

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Sat 10/04/08 12:06 AM
indeed she is :smile:

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/04/08 12:07 AM

indeed she is :smile:
im not c*ck blocking am iohwell

Gams's photo
Sat 10/04/08 12:09 AM

i met a super cool girl here but she lives in cali. i live in ohio and want to know what i should do. should i visit cali and see her or am i better off just olaying my cards with someone closer. i want to meet her and all but what are the odds of anything coming of it? please critique.


I'm guess the answer lies within your hearts or desires and an accurate question.
Are you and she looking for a LOOOONG term relationship?
If so, are either of you willing to relocate to attain that ultimate goal?
If the answer is no to either of the above then why persue it futher unless of course you would both enjoy a fun vacation in CA together just for grins.