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Topic: instant message
iverson721 Joined Thu 10/02/08 Posts: 193	Fri 10/03/08 05:06 PM
i stumbled across this site while, surfing the web and was like what the hell it should be fun, i was bored and i gave me something to do...so search for women to talk to and no one answer there instant message...i was just wondering does anyone answer instant messages...

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/03/08 05:08 PM
they could have it turned off or maybe be busy.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 10/03/08 05:11 PM
Most women keep it turned off for various reasons...mostly to lower the chance of contact by undesirables....best way to be noticed is to post often in the threads and allow people to get to know you.....Welcome and have a blast!

polson Joined Sun 12/31/06 Posts: 28173	Fri 10/03/08 05:16 PM
Alot like Emails first.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 10/03/08 05:17 PM
i keep mine open and free, if i dont know em i close out.

myanimalcracker Joined Wed 02/27/08 Posts: 900	Fri 10/03/08 05:19 PM
I know I personally won't answer IMs from people I've never emailed with before.

Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Fri 10/03/08 05:20 PM
Yeah, message a lady first, get to know each other first. Instant instant (sic) messaging can seem creepy.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 10/03/08 05:21 PM
Shut mine off months ago

iverson721 Joined Thu 10/02/08 Posts: 193	Fri 10/03/08 05:21 PM
ok ok ....that all makes sense, email first...thanks everyone

FreeToB Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 1332	Fri 10/03/08 05:25 PM
I'm no expert but think that a nice short message introducing yourself and asking to chat, if they like. Chat takes all a persons time here and maybe they don't know me well enough (yet) to give that right away.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 10/03/08 05:26 PM
My IM is turned off.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/03/08 05:27 PM
My IM is turned off. thanks for sharing with us winx

polson Joined Sun 12/31/06 Posts: 28173	Fri 10/03/08 05:29 PM
I have mine still on. Want to work on my Russian!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 10/03/08 05:30 PM


Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 10/03/08 05:31 PM Edited by Winx on Fri 10/03/08 05:31 PM
My IM is turned off. thanks for sharing with us winx You're welcome. Would you like to know anything else?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/03/08 05:39 PM Edited by RKISIT on Fri 10/03/08 05:39 PM
My IM is turned off. thanks for sharing with us winx You're welcome. Would you like to know anything else? maybe

flowerd Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 1	Fri 10/03/08 05:41 PM
Ha! It was good that you had a lot of people explaining the instant message thing to you. Some people wouldn't even have helped you with your curiosity. Take Care

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 10/03/08 07:53 PM
My IM is turned off. thanks for sharing with us winx You're welcome. Would you like to know anything else? maybe

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 10/03/08 07:55 PM
Ha! It was good that you had a lot of people explaining the instant message thing to you. Some people wouldn't even have helped you with your curiosity. Take Care Welcome to the threads.

dolphin14 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 1123	Fri 10/03/08 07:58 PM
I don't even think my im works. Email first then try something like yahoo im