I my opinion the best way to keep a positive attitude on this site is to #1)Think of yourself first,"Do I really want to go out with this person,can (he or she)provide what I can give them in return.#2)Learn from bad connections.Everybody lies about theirselves,because they really don't know for sure who they are.So learn the right questions to ask.#3)Don't ever think "Someones out of your league".I've seen some Barbie Dolls with some real circus freaks.Love is blind and sometimes stupid.#4)Keep a positive attitude about yourself."Think,are they good enough for me"?,Cause I'm the Sh..Before I go out,after I've gotten ready to go,I look in the mirror and tell myself,"I'd F... you!!#5)If you don't get a response,think,"Maybe they just was'nt ready for this.I've been with a few women that were'nt.I felt sorry for them.You see you can't put Pamela Anderson with Jake Bell,or Prince with Amanda Bine.Those are'nt matches,those are open flames and someone WILL get burned.Some people just are'nt ready for you.It's not your fault your so damn good.Keep moving Foreward,and good luck.

yeah ive been looking but keep running into dead ends

Good advice, Frank! I think you will do well here. Better than me, anyway, although that's not actually saying much....!