Topic: Dealing with the lose of a Spouse
toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:21 PM
:heart: I fell in love with this gal, 6 months later moved in together.
That was June 2004. Aug I asked her to marry me, she of course said
yes, Sept we found out she had colon cancer and only 6 months to live.
We got married Oct 9, 2004 and I lost her Jan 6, 2005...Married only 89
days... it has been tough, but life goes on and I was blessed to have
her in my life. Just goes to show you... love 'em while ya got 'em cause
you never know when you will loose them.

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:24 PM
So sorry for your loss. Thank God for the time you had with her. You
are right, cherish the one you have.

toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:27 PM
Yes this is true... miss her much. It is a tough thing to deal with,
but I think there was a higher force that brought us together... her for
me as well as me for her... I hope I never have to deal with it like
that again...

LAMom's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:28 PM
So Sorry for your lose,,, Tomorrow is never promised
to us,,,Live today as if it were your last, I am
so glad you two had the time you did with each
other, Cherish and hold those memories deep in
your soul,,, God Bless

toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:30 PM
Oh trust me I do... She was a Pixie if there ever was one and at 47
years old, who knew. I started collecting fairy statues in her
memory...

no photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:31 PM
I know what it feels like to lose some one dear to your heart. But
atleast you made her last days on earth her happiest.

toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:31 PM
By the way... thank you both...

toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:32 PM
Dear, as she did mine... I swear, I would have taken her place in a
heart beat... Thanks

toadofkings's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:34 PM
Oh well, off to bed... Have a good night all..... Hug, kiss and tell the
one next to you that you love them... it could be your last chance.
Night

LAMom's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:37 PM
Nite kings flowerforyou

Thndrghost's photo
Wed 03/28/07 11:49 PM
Kings, I know exactly what you've been through. I lost my husband to
cancer also and the hardest thing I ever had to do was turn off his life
support. After almost 3 yrs alone, I still have some really bad days. I
hope you have someone that you can talk to about it, for the longest
time I didn't and still have a very hard time talking about it with
anyone. I hate bothering people with my problems, even though I know I
need to at times. *hugs* If you ever need to talk...I'm here
flowerforyou