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Topic: Chances and Doubts.
the_mind_flayer Joined Wed 09/24/08 Posts: 599	Sun 09/28/08 04:46 PM
if you don't....it's not a relationship......or even a friendship. don't even waste your time, if you don't have that kind of communication. Logical. Are you a lost brother? thanks for the vote of confidence my friend, (bows sincerely) Indeed. -Nods-

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sun 09/28/08 04:46 PM
Crazy sh!t!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 09/28/08 04:47 PM
You do what you do Izzie, you have carte blance...

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 09/28/08 04:49 PM
i rather them just tell me how they feel and put it out there, than keep thinking everything is fine.then in return i do the same,if it starts to become difficult or to much doubt then i say ,buh bye

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 09/28/08 04:49 PM
Crazy sh!t! hey bro! just went to my 105th, since i missed it. my celliniod melted to my starter the first time i tried, and it was happening, it's over, but i went anyway. the trip was great!!!

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Sun 09/28/08 04:51 PM
if you don't....it's not a relationship......or even a friendship. don't even waste your time, if you don't have that kind of communication. You have to pace yourself. It usually doesnt take time for the real person to come out. Not everyone handles things the same. You have too find out what type of responses you are going to get from them. You have to try too draw out some of thier doubts, and fears to try too see how they are thinking.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 09/28/08 04:54 PM
Someone came out with their fears to me, and I was very dumb founded they were so honest. I feel so incredibly close to that person now, but then it puts more doubts into my own head... Isn't that crazy how that works? But then people who claim to have no doubts scare the crap out of me even more.... What a connundrum...

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sun 09/28/08 04:55 PM
If you dont share your doubts with your potential mate you dont stand a whole load of chance in sorting out the reasons behind the doubts.

Scarlett_156 Joined Wed 09/17/08 Posts: 469	Sun 09/28/08 04:56 PM
How willing are you to share your doubts with a potential mate? What chances are you willing to take when someone shares those doubts with you? How ironic! That is exactly what I'm doing at this very moment, lol!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 09/28/08 04:58 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Sun 09/28/08 04:59 PM
Someone came out with their fears to me, and I was very dumb founded they were so honest. I feel so incredibly close to that person now, but then it puts more doubts into my own head... Isn't that crazy how that works? But then people who claim to have no doubts scare the crap out of me even more.... What a connundrum... it's one hundred percent natural to feel that way, and just anylize your doubts enough, and they will seem less doubtful, and more comfortable to you....i promise.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 09/28/08 05:03 PM
it's one hundred percent natural to feel that way, and just anylize your doubts enough, and they will seem less doubtful, and more comfortable to you....i promise. You're such a wise man...

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sun 09/28/08 05:05 PM
You do what you do Izzie, you have carte blanche... ya.. but that usualy gets me in trouble

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sun 09/28/08 05:09 PM
it's one hundred percent natural to feel that way, and just anylize your doubts enough, and they will seem less doubtful, and more comfortable to you....i promise. You're such a wise man... unless you overalyze them like i do and blow them out of proportion.. then they blow up in your face...

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Sun 09/28/08 05:11 PM
doubts and fears are to be expected, through openness and honesty are the way to let them out, especially if one is in a relationship.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 09/28/08 05:14 PM
If you can't share those, chances are you aren't going to be able to share other things and THAT doesn't sound like a positive & healthy relationship to me...

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 09/28/08 05:16 PM
it's one hundred percent natural to feel that way, and just anylize your doubts enough, and they will seem less doubtful, and more comfortable to you....i promise. You're such a wise man... thankyou very much!, but all i have are mine and other life experiences to go on, for i don't ever give advice, just suggestions that hopefully make sense.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sun 09/28/08 05:18 PM Edited by Winx on Sun 09/28/08 05:20 PM
if you don't....it's not a relationship......or even a friendship. don't even waste your time, if you don't have that kind of communication. I agree. Hi Owl.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 09/28/08 05:23 PM
it's one hundred percent natural to feel that way, and just anylize your doubts enough, and they will seem less doubtful, and more comfortable to you....i promise. You're such a wise man... unless you overalyze them like i do and blow them out of proportion.. then they blow up in your face... well........uummm...........STOP IT!!!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 09/28/08 05:24 PM
if you don't....it's not a relationship......or even a friendship. don't even waste your time, if you don't have that kind of communication. I agree. Hi Owl. hi winx!!!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 09/28/08 05:25 PM
You do what you do Izzie, you have carte blanche... ya.. but that usualy gets me in trouble Not with me you won't...