in response to your question...its called the martingale theory...effect...or probability...same thing..basically, what we do tomorrow is based on what we do today...and what we did yesterday....so yes, the past affects you future...however, there are two other scenario's for the future...base - just explained, then something more conservative...and then something more aggressive...the chances are though..that we're going to continue doing the same things tomorrow as we did today unless there's some type of disruptive change...

Roco

correction: meant to say 3 (three) other scenarios for the future...base/aggressive/conservative...

Roco

Wow when I have to study I am coming to you ROco sounds like you were a good student. lol

learned from my past and moved on
will I forget, NO
forgive, Maybe

Have moved ahead, just looking for someone to take the journey with me, that's all

Do you think having a really good experience in your past affect your future? Make you too picky? I think that is where I am stuck. I know there was a person who didn't give me a lot of crap and life was fun together even though we didn't always have it easy.

We should all use the experiences of our pasts to dictate our future as to remembering every one of them.
And use them as a stepping stone to each new experience.
Not to judge them on 'our' past. But to be aware of what their about and to feel their heart.
If we feel they have similar traits we 'should'
take that as a possible flag to a bad past experience or maybe the flip side of that.
A 'special' trait that we loved once in another?

But GOD made us with memory for a reason,wink.
And it wasn't to 'not' use it.

my past does have a tendancy to crfeep into current relationships... for example i have been cheated on by every (thats right every) boyfriend i have EVER had... so i have serious trust issues... i was in an abusive relationship... so now i also have issues with speaking my mind...

my bf now is aware of my past and is extremely patient in my present so we can work on a future..

i cant count the ## of times i have been crying over something STUPID.. he will call.. manage to DRAG out of me what is wrong.. he hears me out.. explains his side... listens to why it hurt me... and then we resolve the issue... and move on...


the key to it... communication.. he is aware of who i am and why i am the way i am.. so he knows *or he thinks he knows* what to expect from me..

not the ideal sitiuaton.. but nether was the blind eyed innocence that i have used going into past relationships.. at least this one is honest..

hopin to forget it all