Topic: It's been asked before, But...
BigGlenn's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:00 AM
I've been here since the "good ol' days" and it still baffles me...

Why would someone choose you as a mutual match and when you respond positively,Why would they not respond back?
noway


redhead44613's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:02 AM
I have no clue... I did have one write me back but he was to busy to talk to me.. so yeah. Oh well move on.drinker

BigGlenn's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:04 AM
It's not a real "issue", It's just odd. Besides, I'm bored and felt like posting something.

peace

redhead44613's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:04 AM
laugh have a good dayflowerforyou

rochelle1263's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:08 AM
Hello Glenn Was just checking out your profile
too bad you are all the way on the east

Twitch's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:24 AM

I've been here since the "good ol' days" and it still baffles me...

Why would someone choose you as a mutual match and when you respond positively,Why would they not respond back?
noway




I have no idea either frustrated
Just in the last couple of weeks I've responded positively to two men who picked me on Mutual Match because we lived so close to each other -- doesn't make any sense if they are trying to meet someone.

BigGlenn's photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:33 AM
Maybe they panic when you call their bluff.
laugh

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 07:53 AM
Maybe they are shy....flowerforyou

BigGlenn's photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:24 AM

Maybe they are shy....flowerforyou


Shy, Like girls who don't post a pic?
flowers

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:25 AM


Maybe they are shy....flowerforyou


Shy, Like girls who don't post a pic?
flowers

Oh...i'm not shy LOL
Just attract the wrong attentionohwell

RKISIT's photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:33 AM
i have been wondering the same thing it happens to me too.:smile:

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:34 AM
I did respond.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:39 AM
Edited by Ruth34611 on Fri 09/26/08 08:39 AM
I never click on my mutual matches. I've got 69 supposedly waiting to go through.......hey, maybe that's the magic number!?!

69 people said they want to meet you.
Rate people now and see if you are a match.

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 08:58 PM
Glen......I like your new pics.

I've never understood this either. I have had a mutual match come through the second time after I have deleted them once and they STILL don't attempt any kind of communication. WTH? Especially the ones that look at your profile, then you get the mutual match deal. You know they have at least taken the time to read about you first......why the heck don't they email or something? Very odd indeed.
I got the nerve up to email one person who looked and then asked to match. They read it and promptly ignored me...ha! I won't be doing that again!

Even asked a reg in here by email to give me some advice and maybe some male insight on what I was doing wrong. That too was read and promptly ignored. Sigh, I give up......hehehe.

Good luck to you....sorry to be so wordy, I can't seem to be short and sweet today!

BigGlenn's photo
Sat 09/27/08 06:21 PM
Thanks Heather.
flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 09/27/08 06:41 PM
Your Welcome!

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 09/27/08 07:55 PM
I don't know why several people I see on here are single because I think they are awesome from what I see.

If someone is just looking and hits positive on all mutual matches like some do rather than take the time to read the full profile then they are wasteing your time and too rude to get upset about.

Hang in there nice people. Someone will find you.

no photo
Sat 09/27/08 08:04 PM

I've been here since the "good ol' days" and it still baffles me...

Why would someone choose you as a mutual match and when you respond positively,Why would they not respond back?
noway




Because it's like a game. I just start clicking and sort of lose track of the idea that these are real people who may actually want to meet me.

Anyway, I figure if someone really wants to meet me, he/she will message me. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

Noregrets121's photo
Sat 09/27/08 08:31 PM
maybe they dont see you as a mutual match

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 09/29/08 02:10 AM

maybe they dont see you as a mutual match


huh