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Topic: Not Feeling Like Me
whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 09/25/08 05:27 AM
I have not felt like myself lately. I am feeling down, and invisible. I have a great supper planned tonight with a great guy and I am not even looking forward to it. Part of me wants to just cancel, but I know I will regret it if I do. Has anybody else ever felt this way? And what do you do to bring yourself up?

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 09/25/08 05:29 AM
i just try to recognize it as a passing phase and that it won't be lasting. usually a long walk will make me feel better, especially in a conservation area and/or ravine. i hope you snap out of it in time for your date. i'd go anyway, that might be just what you need for a pick-me-up.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 09/25/08 05:30 AM
i just try to recognize it as a passing phase and that it won't be lasting. usually a long walk will make me feel better, especially in a conservation area and/or ravine. i hope you snap out of it in time for your date. i'd go anyway, that might be just what you need for a pick-me-up. Thank you. I do have some more shopping to do for it. As it is not really a date but a friend coming over for dinner. But I really like him.

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Thu 09/25/08 05:30 AM
I was thinking the same thing. Might be just what you need to get out of your "funk". I usually try to do something for someone else when I'm feeling that way. Sounds cliche, but it does work. I'm with ya though, been feeling a little invisible myself as of late. Hope your evening turns out great!

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 09/25/08 05:31 AM
I was thinking the same thing. Might be just what you need to get out of your "funk". I usually try to do something for someone else when I'm feeling that way. Sounds cliche, but it does work. I'm with ya though, been feeling a little invisible myself as of late. Hope your evening turns out great! Thank you. I am sure it will pass but I am just sick of crying for no reason.

jnbuglady Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 865	Thu 09/25/08 05:33 AM
I understand completely, with me its the unknown, scarey, will he like me, will everything be as I want it to be, so I just have to come to terms with those fears and carry on, because YOU NEVER KNOW!

Hajimemashite Joined Thu 08/28/08 Posts: 4031	Thu 09/25/08 05:55 AM
Try not to stress and smile

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 09/25/08 05:58 AM
Try not to stress and smile Thank you sweetie

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 09/25/08 06:00 AM
i just try to recognize it as a passing phase and that it won't be lasting. usually a long walk will make me feel better, especially in a conservation area and/or ravine. i hope you snap out of it in time for your date. i'd go anyway, that might be just what you need for a pick-me-up. Agreed. for Whisper (( Lisa ))

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 09/25/08 06:19 AM
St John's Wort

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Thu 09/25/08 06:40 AM
{{{{{{{Melissa}}}}}}... baby girl... you have had SOOOOOOOO much on your plate... emotionally, mentally & physically...... it's no wonder you are feeling worn out. Just for tonight, give yourself permission to put it all aside ... bundle it all up and place it down. Then go forth and just enjoy tonight for what it is: dinner with a person you really enjoy being with! Should something more develope.. then great! If not.. you still had the pleasure of spending time with someone that you like being with. Then.. in the morning.. .should you choose... you can always pick up the bundle of stress and deal with it then.

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Thu 09/25/08 07:00 AM
Just shake all this off!!Go for the walk,& pick yourself up soming extra at the store.It will be fine. Good LUck!!!

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 09/25/08 09:54 AM
Thank you guys, I went out and spent the morning with a friend. I am starting to feel better.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 09/25/08 09:57 AM
I have not felt like myself lately. I am feeling down, and invisible. I have a great supper planned tonight with a great guy and I am not even looking forward to it. Part of me wants to just cancel, but I know I will regret it if I do. Has anybody else ever felt this way? And what do you do to bring yourself up? Yes Ive felt this way.......and lately too. Im thinking it has something to do with the drab weather.