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Chit your already commonlaw married babe...if it aint broke, dont fix it!
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me and my bf have been with each other for 8 years. Our relationship has not advanced one bit. how long should i give him to make up his mind about were he wants up to end up in our relationship or should i just call it quits and walk away so my question is how long is to long to date? JMHO...8 years is long enough.Obviously youre having your doubts or you wouldnt have signed up on a dating site... |
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Edited by
Texanese
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Wed 09/24/08 07:54 PM
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Again, it's really easy for other people to say walk away or dump him. It's not that EASY.
You need to pick a calm time when you're both alone with no upcoming appointments or commitments and TALK to him. Tell him how YOU feel, not what he's doing wrong, but how what he's doing makes YOU feel. You also need to ask yourself if you're better off with him or without him. I'm not just talking about the afraid to be alone thing - does he truly make your life better or not, does he make you feel good or not. Every relationship has rough patches - what's the relationship like over all? He may just be being a total guy and not even realize what you're feeling. I go on the theory that if there are two ways to interpret what a guys says or does, one way hurts your feelings and the other way doesn't. He DOESN'T mean to hurt your feelings. Give him the benefit of the doubt, he's a GUY, and most likely he just doesn't see it. TELL him and then go from there. JMHO Marti Lou |
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I think you have really answered your own question by joining this site! Time moves quickly.....don't get left in the dust!
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