Community > General Discussion

Post Reply

Topic: Changing Dynamics
HavensBliss Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 72	Tue 09/23/08 03:30 PM
Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different?

SkaryKoolAide Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 1154	Tue 09/23/08 03:32 PM
<<<totally goin thru that now normally id get drunk like evry other day and stay high all the time. i realized that it sucked so i quit drinkin and smokin and now am trainin to join the service

Dangerous_Kitchen Joined Mon 06/02/08 Posts: 2897	Tue 09/23/08 03:32 PM
i need an aspirin

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Tue 09/23/08 03:32 PM
When in doubt it's time for a 'do over'!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 09/23/08 03:32 PM
Nope, I maintain my usual level of being boring, go to work , to the gym & then home

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Tue 09/23/08 03:33 PM
Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different? My life is currently a swirling vortex of uncertainty outside of my "what I have to do TODAY" bubble...so I'm evaluating options, choices, and known entities. Nothing is certain but changes!

HavensBliss Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 72	Tue 09/23/08 03:35 PM
<<<totally goin thru that now normally id get drunk like evry other day and stay high all the time. i realized that it sucked so i quit drinkin and smokin and now am trainin to join the service Tough work, I glad you have taken that step in your life.

snarkytwain Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 2789	Tue 09/23/08 03:35 PM
Mine just slowly steamrolled me. If the me of three years ago saw the me of today she'd run away screaming. Pansy-ass.

HavensBliss Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 72	Tue 09/23/08 03:35 PM
Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different? My life is currently a swirling vortex of uncertainty outside of my "what I have to do TODAY" bubble...so I'm evaluating options, choices, and known entities. Nothing is certain but changes! Definatly relate to that!

SkaryKoolAide Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 1154	Tue 09/23/08 03:36 PM
<<<totally goin thru that now normally id get drunk like evry other day and stay high all the time. i realized that it sucked so i quit drinkin and smokin and now am trainin to join the service Tough work, I glad you have taken that step in your life. thank u.....yeah i was j tired of not doin anything, plus itll pay for my college

HavensBliss Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 72	Tue 09/23/08 03:38 PM
Mine just slowly steamrolled me. If the me of three years ago saw the me of today she'd run away screaming. Pansy-ass. Sometimes I think it may be better if you don't see it coming.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Tue 09/23/08 03:38 PM
Definatly relate to that! Keeps things from ever getting BORING though!

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Tue 09/23/08 03:38 PM
Nope, I maintain my usual level of being boring, go to work , to the gym & then home but you're fishing..thats whats important

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Tue 09/23/08 03:44 PM
I like me just the way I am...right now I don't think I will change anything

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Tue 09/23/08 03:47 PM Edited by JulieMP on Tue 09/23/08 03:50 PM
Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different? you might not welcome my opinion. AT 25 I was a licensed professional that supervised a staff that were far older than me. OK. I had to take off for my mothers funeral and in that time (i took off longer than i anticpicated, but you know..god it was my mom) my superiors transferred me to a lesser location. I resigned. I took up, for 1/2 the pay as an artist. I got to paint everyday. The rat race would go on with out me. i am gonna admit that painting was my calling but made me poor. Next I met a man who was a lawyer and I was escorted to every elegant location that you can imagine. Hotels and celebrities and royalties. He stopped loving me so Now I am in redneck small town. I am still finacially independant but I came here to cuddle in my sisters embrace. And i still love me, (some) just not those who use me as fluff for their colleagues. ha not really ha, but haa, I endeavor to persevere.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 09/23/08 03:50 PM
Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where the dynamics of it were changing, or needed to change? Did you decide at that point to totally reinvent yourself, or did you just all the sudden realize things were different? Happens to me all the time.