Thanks hajimemas*ite. It's been good.

See you around.

night

Ok. I've got enough back to survive.

I would like to know why the distance between your wishes and your goals.

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Thanks for the ???

It was a left curve. I did read your profile, and you have a life that many people should wish to live, with sincerity, purpose, knowing what you like and who you are...and filled with people, and animals, and doing things.

You wish the truck were yours.
Your goal is to develop a relationship with the person who is the perfect mate for you.

You are smart, experienced in life and online, and I wondered what to ask...

So...I see that wishes get fulfilled for you.

Your goal seems to be unfulfilled.

Why the distance between the two?

HOLY CRAP!!!
You really perved me and understand all I said!
Caught me off gaurd and I like it! Nice to find someone that can hold a conversation

So, I'm waiting for the questions and might be willing to answer...


Distance between my wants and haves right now is the fact that times are hard and I have to be smart and not feed into what is a want instead of a need.

Do I want the truck? YES
Do I need the truck? NOPE

Right now living is hard enough without taking on payments for something like that when I'm doing fine with the vehicle I have.

I would rather take the time I would spend working and find a relationship I can enjoy for a long time.

I'm fussy and refuse to settle!

[I'm fussy and refuse to settle!]

Nice concrete logical answers.

Now, it's your turn. Ask away.

Gimme a minute I haven't read your profile yet just looked to see if man/woman was behind the earlier pics

I thought so, when I saw that you looked. We were zinging along!

What is your idea of the one true fake that you are looking for?

I would say that the first priority would have to be courage with oneself, but simultaneous with the need/want/recognition of me as the person of the moment.

Courage is common, especially among women, in the face of realities and decisions for the future. If we agree upon that, then the necessary next thing is the recognition of knowing that I am the right person, at the right time, who will fulfill some critical need/want. I am easy enough with the fact that I cannot pretend to fulfill every requirement...but enough for the heart and flesh, for the immediate future.

I should explain how that answers "true fake" specification.
Women that I have seen are 'true' in the sense of needing/wanting Mr. Right, or Mr. Next. Yet at the same time they are 'fake' in the sense that they pose a requirement for Mr. Right to be everything that they are looking for.

Very nice!

This view should be very helpful in finding what your heart desires.

I know I'm not perfect and will never claim to be but I also know that I am good enough that I could make someone very happy even through the bad times that life brings.

Your turn...

Thank you.

Now...we have tested each other's honesty and some willingness to be brave.

Let's turn to play.

To what extent do you sincerely enjoy and become excited by writing sexy/flirting/erotic online, with strangers...and in front of everyone?

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/130222

read me

Yum. **sly smile and sideways appraising look***

I also read your recent exchange with boredinaz06, on the 'sex with me' thread.

You quickly escalate, whether calling a person's bluff, daring them to prove up to their pretense, or simply expressing your freedom with pizzaz.

Now, I wonder what you will ask me?

Do you anylize everyone like you are me?

No, I don't mind it is nice to hear what others think of me good and bad so I can make adjustments in me as needed to make myself happy.