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Topic: how to communicate better
lil_laney86 Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 1	Fri 09/19/08 05:47 PM
i have been with this guy foe 7 months and i really need to learn better communication skills...i am a snappy one and he dont deserve that sny advice

maraskia74 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1017	Fri 09/19/08 05:48 PM
try not to be snappy lol if you feel like being mean just count to 10 lol

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 09/19/08 05:50 PM
dont worry be snappy,nice facial mask too by the way

greekguy Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 7	Fri 09/19/08 05:52 PM
Tell the guy to let you know when you are being snappy with him. Then let it be OK that he told you (don't get snappy for doing what you asked him to). If you want communication to be better you both have to work on it.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 09/19/08 05:53 PM
If he isn't complaining don't fix what ain't broke. If he is try and figure out what is bugging you and work it out. Good luck.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 09/19/08 05:58 PM
i have been with this guy foe 7 months and i really need to learn better communication skills...i am a snappy one and he dont deserve that sny advice tell him to take ya shoppin for shoes, how can ya snap at that.!!!!

Socratease Joined Wed 07/30/08 Posts: 417	Fri 09/19/08 06:03 PM
Depends on what u snap about,and if its something he says or does that gets u like that, than tell him..and if u only have been snappy 7 times in 7 months than np

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 09/19/08 06:05 PM
Being in a new relationship is stressful. Take your time and work into it. Have some heart to hearts about house rules, spending and saving agreements, family relationships, and personal baggage before you set up housekeeping. Have at least one good fight and know what to expect in how you are going to solve problems. Remember "sleeping together" does not count as much needed rest to cope with the added emotional and physical and financial strain on everyone.

mari103 Joined Sat 09/06/08 Posts: 42	Fri 09/19/08 06:15 PM
why do you feel that you have to change,what is making you feel this way? has he already said something about this matter,and worry about him going somewhere else.go ahead and change lose yourself over him,but before you do ask yourself how far are you will to go.

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Fri 09/19/08 06:17 PM
maybe you're snappy because your face has turned green .. might want to get that looked at...

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 09/19/08 06:18 PM
If you feel you are treating him poorly when you get that way, learn to control yourself. Proverbs says "A man/woman who can't control his/her temper is worse than a city without walls" I think it's really good for character to learn self-discipline. I've taught my girls when they are pms'ing to not take the whole world hostage with their roller-coaster emotions. Learn some self-control babe

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 09/19/08 06:41 PM


Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Fri 09/19/08 06:45 PM
Maybe you just need a real man who can control your temper for you. That wasnt an offer! lol

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Fri 09/19/08 06:46 PM
Just knock that shi* off.....No man likes a nasty mean woman......grrrrr

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